Neighbors having sex in backyard

[Anonymous]

any person who intentionally exposes themselves indecently in public, or their private parts in the presence of other people, can face charges for indecent exposure.

If a child sees it you can be charged with

Lewd, indecent, or obscene acts; sexual proposal to a minor.
It is unlawful for a person, in public, to make an obscene or indecent exposure of his or her genitalia or anus, to engage in masturbation, or to engage in a sexual act as defined in § 22-3001(8). It is unlawful for a person to make an obscene or indecent sexual proposal to a minor. A person who violates any provision of this section shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and, upon conviction, shall be fined not more than the amount set forth in § 22-3571.01, imprisoned for not more than 90 days, or both

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:any person who intentionally exposes themselves indecently in public, or their private parts in the presence of other people, can face charges for indecent exposure.

If a child sees it you can be charged with

Lewd, indecent, or obscene acts; sexual proposal to a minor.
It is unlawful for a person, in public, to make an obscene or indecent exposure of his or her genitalia or anus, to engage in masturbation, or to engage in a sexual act as defined in § 22-3001(8). It is unlawful for a person to make an obscene or indecent sexual proposal to a minor. A person who violates any provision of this section shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and, upon conviction, shall be fined not more than the amount set forth in § 22-3571.01, imprisoned for not more than 90 days, or both

On your back deck in the dark at night is not in public.

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure I caught the exact address where this happens?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve tried to talk my husband into this for years. In the hammock. We have a privacy fence and lots of trees. He’s not into it.

Outdoor sex is not always as great as it sounds. You can wind up with bug bites in places you didn't think possible.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

Ugh yes as a teen and college student I HATED hearing my parents. It didn't seem fair to me that they could carry on but I wasn't allowed b.c I wasnt married. I was made to feel ashamed and guilty for even having sexual thoughts...which I did all the time.
-Recovering Catholic

So you think you’d be better of with parents who had a sexless marriage??? In which case would your kids be better off if you and your spouse didn’t have sex? Couples can’t have sex in their own home until the kids are out? This country really has taken a nosedive. Sure no kid wants to see or hear their parents but they should recognize that it is healthy, appropriate part of family life and like I said before glad their parents are doing it. Some people really need to grow up.

FYI most psychologists, sexologists, and sex-positive therapists disagree with YOU. No one is saying it cant happen accidently but you cannot just free-for-all and act like everyone else is suppressed. Consent applies to this who will witness it or hear it. If you arent willing to negate possible instances of non-consenting persons witnessing or hearing it then you are just self-absorbed.

So I guess apartment dwellers need to get consent from the surrounding apartments? Parents need to get consent from their children? At what age does this consent need to happen?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

Ugh yes as a teen and college student I HATED hearing my parents. It didn't seem fair to me that they could carry on but I wasn't allowed b.c I wasnt married. I was made to feel ashamed and guilty for even having sexual thoughts...which I did all the time.
-Recovering Catholic

So you think you’d be better of with parents who had a sexless marriage??? In which case would your kids be better off if you and your spouse didn’t have sex? Couples can’t have sex in their own home until the kids are out? This country really has taken a nosedive. Sure no kid wants to see or hear their parents but they should recognize that it is healthy, appropriate part of family life and like I said before glad their parents are doing it. Some people really need to grow up.

FYI most psychologists, sexologists, and sex-positive therapists disagree with YOU. No one is saying it cant happen accidently but you cannot just free-for-all and act like everyone else is suppressed. Consent applies to this who will witness it or hear it. If you arent willing to negate possible instances of non-consenting persons witnessing or hearing it then you are just self-absorbed.

So I guess apartment dwellers need to get consent from the surrounding apartments? Parents need to get consent from their children? At what age does this consent need to happen?

you know, it is possible to have sex without making an obscene amount of noise. Don’t be an a$$hole just because you seem to think you can. Think about the world at large, not just yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

Ugh yes as a teen and college student I HATED hearing my parents. It didn't seem fair to me that they could carry on but I wasn't allowed b.c I wasnt married. I was made to feel ashamed and guilty for even having sexual thoughts...which I did all the time.
-Recovering Catholic

So you think you’d be better of with parents who had a sexless marriage??? In which case would your kids be better off if you and your spouse didn’t have sex? Couples can’t have sex in their own home until the kids are out? This country really has taken a nosedive. Sure no kid wants to see or hear their parents but they should recognize that it is healthy, appropriate part of family life and like I said before glad their parents are doing it. Some people really need to grow up.

FYI most psychologists, sexologists, and sex-positive therapists disagree with YOU. No one is saying it cant happen accidently but you cannot just free-for-all and act like everyone else is suppressed. Consent applies to this who will witness it or hear it. If you arent willing to negate possible instances of non-consenting persons witnessing or hearing it then you are just self-absorbed.

Thank you! This is what I've been trying to say. You can have some discretion. Why do people have to jump to histrionics that the "country has taken a nosedive" like calm TF down I never said that people shouldn't have sex ever. Sheesh. I love my sexual relationship but I'm not going to rub my kids' face in it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d have yelled “FAKE! Do better dude so she doesn’t need to fake!”

This is the way.

For this comic relief, many thanks.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

Ugh yes as a teen and college student I HATED hearing my parents. It didn't seem fair to me that they could carry on but I wasn't allowed b.c I wasnt married. I was made to feel ashamed and guilty for even having sexual thoughts...which I did all the time.
-Recovering Catholic

So you think you’d be better of with parents who had a sexless marriage??? In which case would your kids be better off if you and your spouse didn’t have sex? Couples can’t have sex in their own home until the kids are out? This country really has taken a nosedive. Sure no kid wants to see or hear their parents but they should recognize that it is healthy, appropriate part of family life and like I said before glad their parents are doing it. Some people really need to grow up.

FYI most psychologists, sexologists, and sex-positive therapists disagree with YOU. No one is saying it cant happen accidently but you cannot just free-for-all and act like everyone else is suppressed. Consent applies to this who will witness it or hear it. If you arent willing to negate possible instances of non-consenting persons witnessing or hearing it then you are just self-absorbed.

So I guess apartment dwellers need to get consent from the surrounding apartments? Parents need to get consent from their children? At what age does this consent need to happen?

you know, it is possible to have sex without making an obscene amount of noise.

Maybe for you.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

Ugh yes as a teen and college student I HATED hearing my parents. It didn't seem fair to me that they could carry on but I wasn't allowed b.c I wasnt married. I was made to feel ashamed and guilty for even having sexual thoughts...which I did all the time.
-Recovering Catholic

So you think you’d be better of with parents who had a sexless marriage??? In which case would your kids be better off if you and your spouse didn’t have sex? Couples can’t have sex in their own home until the kids are out? This country really has taken a nosedive. Sure no kid wants to see or hear their parents but they should recognize that it is healthy, appropriate part of family life and like I said before glad their parents are doing it. Some people really need to grow up.

FYI most psychologists, sexologists, and sex-positive therapists disagree with YOU. No one is saying it cant happen accidently but you cannot just free-for-all and act like everyone else is suppressed. Consent applies to this who will witness it or hear it. If you arent willing to negate possible instances of non-consenting persons witnessing or hearing it then you are just self-absorbed.

So I guess apartment dwellers need to get consent from the surrounding apartments? Parents need to get consent from their children? At what age does this consent need to happen?

you know, it is possible to have sex without making an obscene amount of noise. Don’t be an a$$hole just because you seem to think you can. Think about the world at large, not just yourself.

The PP doesn't indicate that there is any acceptable level because any sound could potentially be overheard without conset.

[Anonymous]

Nobody has an inherent right to be free from witnessing/overhearing/being aware of sex acts. It’s how every single mammal has ever reproduced. Don’t ever go to the zoo you wouldn’t believe what you could accidentally see. Some things are just a part of life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve had roommates, neighbors in adjoining apartments and people at nearby campsites have sex within my earshot, is it weird that I kind of like it?

Not weird at all. We love listening.

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Anonymous wrote:We've had outdoor sex on our property as well as in our apartment with the curtain open where people could see us. It was hot. If you're not interested, don't look.

So, it's "hot" because you might be seen. Right. But the problem with that thinking is that the people participating in your fetish (voyeurism) have not consented to it.

They don't need to look into our apartment window then. No one's putting a gun to their head. We're not doing it on the metro.

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If you are not having sex, and don't enjoy to other people having sex, you don't have to partake.

I mean, would you rather your name be publicized on the Ashley Madison list, or would you rather you enjoy yourself in private with your spouse, and your neighbors find out about that??

MMMkaaaaayyyy......

[Anonymous]

Yes it's illegal even in your own backyard
https://kpic.com/amp/news/local/roseburg-couple-arrested-for-public-sexual-encounter

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2384902/Man-woman-arrested-having-sex-broad-daylight-yard-strangers-home.html

https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/naked-man-81-arrested-having-6164242

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Anonymous wrote:Yes it's illegal even in your own backyard
https://kpic.com/amp/news/local/roseburg-couple-arrested-for-public-sexual-encounter

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2384902/Man-woman-arrested-having-sex-broad-daylight-yard-strangers-home.html

https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/naked-man-81-arrested-having-6164242

The point is, I dare you to call the cops on us, if we are in the backyard, in the dark, and relatively quiet.

And FFS, get out of the bushes and stop trying to catch a glimpse of us in our porch, because you are just gross.