Neighbors having sex in backyard

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

Your backyard isn't public. Otherwise I could just set up a tent and live there.

[Anonymous]

We've had outdoor sex on our property as well as in our apartment with the curtain open where people could see us. It was hot. If you're not interested, don't look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

[Anonymous]

I’ve had roommates, neighbors in adjoining apartments and people at nearby campsites have sex within my earshot, is it weird that I kind of like it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've had outdoor sex on our property as well as in our apartment with the curtain open where people could see us. It was hot. If you're not interested, don't look.

So, it's "hot" because you might be seen. Right. But the problem with that thinking is that the people participating in your fetish (voyeurism) have not consented to it.

[Anonymous]

Beats listening to the fireworks artillery my neighbors launched this weekend. I didn't consent to hear any of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Beats listening to the fireworks artillery my neighbors launched this weekend. I didn't consent to hear any of that.

Or house rattling music.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

I feel sad for you and worse for your parents. As a teen I “caught” my grandparents when I got up in the middle of the night to get some water. I was impressed and happy for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are they hot?

This is the only relevant question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, people pay big bucks to go to resorts where they can experience this kind of thing. Clearly it’s not your thing to watch or listen, so just ignore it and move along with your life. They’re adults in their own space.

It wouldn't bother me but this is a consent issue. When you go to a sex resort- everyone there knows and consents to what will happen. When you have sex in public and other people who aren't expecting it and havent consented to it can see or hear you - that's not ethical kink. What if a child or a survivor of SA witnessed it? Not cool.

I agree with you. This also applies to children hearing their parents in the house.

What is the issue with children hearing parents have healthy sex once in awhile???? I don’t like to be seen or heard, but if my kids happened to see/hear us I don’t see why anyone should be ashamed. If anything, children (including adult children) should be glad when their parents are having positive sex.

Accidental exposure is an accident but it is on the parents to limit the possibility of exposure. Not making sure that the door can be opened, white noise machines on, etc. are ridiculous. Children can KNOW about sex, safe sex, be in a sex-positive household without having to be subjected to hearing or seeing their parents have sex. Lock up sex toys, put pics/videos in a vault on your phone or computer, etc.

NO ONE IS GLAD for knowing their parents are having sex. No one is like oh good for mom shes on number #2, she is so lucky Dad has such a great tongue. In the abstract, of course, people are happy that other people have fulfilling sex lives AND it can be talked about in open ways but not family directly.

dad has a great tongue? 👅

I agree, no kid is happy / ecstatic when they see their mom getting railed up the ass by daddy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is in fact, illegal to do this.

Where is it illegal to have sex on your property? Maybe in the front yard but in back yard or back porch? Show us where this is illegal in metro area.
.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's trashy and illegal, what neighborhood is this and what is the zip

Yes, this! And while you’re getting us this information, what color is the house and do you mind if I park in your driveway and bring a lawn chair to put in your backyard? Is 8:00 PM good?

You are effing crazy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's trashy and illegal, what neighborhood is this and what is the zip

Why? Are you going to call the police?

Absolutely, these folks are trash and should be arrested for lewd conduct or indecent exposure and put on the sex registry

Okay, troll.

No , this is the behavior of sec offenders, often wanting to show off to children

And, their name is Seven and we all know that Seven eight Nine and then turned around and became a Six offender by taking a big bite out of Six.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We've had outdoor sex on our property as well as in our apartment with the curtain open where people could see us. It was hot. If you're not interested, don't look.

So, it's "hot" because you might be seen. Right. But the problem with that thinking is that the people participating in your fetish (voyeurism) have not consented to it.

They don't need to look into our apartment window then. No one's putting a gun to their head. We're not doing it on the metro.