Name help for girl

[Anonymous]

I love Alice, Gwendolyn (Wendy in particular) and Paloma (my daughter has a Paloma called “Lola” in her class and she’s absolutely adorable). Are there middle names you like/family members to honor that we could look at?

[Anonymous]

I like Paloma and Juliet. Considered one and used the other.

[Anonymous]

The only names I like on your list are Juliet and Miranda. Of those to Juliet is more to my liking. I’m not into the name Paloma and Alice is an old lady name to me. Gwendolyn is also way too frilly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hmmmmm. OP here. Much food for thought. It’s my third child, so it’s my last chance to really choose! My husband and I battled it out for the last two. Okay, so the bottom line seems to be that Paloma is divisive, Juliet is good but trendy, and Alice is a dark horse, along with Gwendolyn. I am going to have to puzzle this one more. What do people think is a good middle name for Juliet?

Who won those battles? If he's picked the first two kids' names, it's your turn. If you have named the first two, it's his turn. If you each got one, back to the drawing board.

I don't think Paloma is divisive, I think DCUM only likes "ethnic" names if the ethnicity screams Whitey Von Whiterson. They'll recommend Aoife and Linnea and then tell you "ugh, naming a kid Paloma is like naming her Margarita" without even realizing they're outing themselves as ignorant drunks.

Well Paloma is a Spanish name most popular in Spain, a country full of white people, so perhaps it's you outing yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Scrap Gwendolyn and Miranda as a starting point.

Juliet is having a moment, if that matters to you. (Along with Julianna, Guilianna, Julia, Juliette, etc.)

Paloma is beautiful but if you don't have a Spanish/Latin heritage or connection it seems like a stretch pick. But if you do, this is my vote.

My husband is half Mexican, but I agree, it feels like a stretch to me. That’s my concern.

I know it's been said, but I agree. It's not a stretch. Your child is Hispanic. There's no question of appropriation here because it is part of her ethnicity/culture. Imo, Paloma is a beautiful name, as is Juliet. You can't go wrong with either name, OP. Maybe choose one arbitrarily and start referring to the baby by that name, then switch names. See what feels right to both of you. Might not help, but maybe it will.

-Hispanic mama

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hmmmmm. OP here. Much food for thought. It’s my third child, so it’s my last chance to really choose! My husband and I battled it out for the last two. Okay, so the bottom line seems to be that Paloma is divisive, Juliet is good but trendy, and Alice is a dark horse, along with Gwendolyn. I am going to have to puzzle this one more. What do people think is a good middle name for Juliet?

Who won those battles? If he's picked the first two kids' names, it's your turn. If you have named the first two, it's his turn. If you each got one, back to the drawing board.

I don't think Paloma is divisive, I think DCUM only likes "ethnic" names if the ethnicity screams Whitey Von Whiterson. They'll recommend Aoife and Linnea and then tell you "ugh, naming a kid Paloma is like naming her Margarita" without even realizing they're outing themselves as ignorant drunks.

You can recognize that the name Paloma is the same as an alcoholic beverage without being an ignorant drunk.

OP, I like Juliet a lot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hmmmmm. OP here. Much food for thought. It’s my third child, so it’s my last chance to really choose! My husband and I battled it out for the last two. Okay, so the bottom line seems to be that Paloma is divisive, Juliet is good but trendy, and Alice is a dark horse, along with Gwendolyn. I am going to have to puzzle this one more. What do people think is a good middle name for Juliet?

Who won those battles? If he's picked the first two kids' names, it's your turn. If you have named the first two, it's his turn. If you each got one, back to the drawing board.

I don't think Paloma is divisive, I think DCUM only likes "ethnic" names if the ethnicity screams Whitey Von Whiterson. They'll recommend Aoife and Linnea and then tell you "ugh, naming a kid Paloma is like naming her Margarita" without even realizing they're outing themselves as ignorant drunks.

You can recognize that the name Paloma is the same as an alcoholic beverage without being an ignorant drunk.

OP, I like Juliet a lot.

DP. Thinking that a child named Paloma is named after a cocktail would indeed make you sound like an ignorant drunk. I assume the cocktail was either named after a woman or after the bird, but either way the name far predates the cocktail. I feel the same about the name Mercedes.