Who drives the babysitter home?

[Anonymous]

It was almost always the dad who drove me home when I babysat 30 years ago. I once offered to help find a sitter for a family when I had a conflict and my friends all said yes and then cancelled immediately when their parents found out. It turns out the dad was a sex offender (former teacher who had slept with students). My parents knew and apparently still assumed it was perfectly safe for him to drive me home.

[Anonymous]

I've offered, but our teenaged sitter always calls her parents to pick her up if it's too late for her to walk home (she lives a few streets over).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also funny that everyone assumes the sitter is a girl. When my boys were younger we had a male babysitter that they adored and my 12 year old boy is starting to work as a mom/dad helper and is looking forward to babysitting when he’s a little older.

I'd never hire a boy sitter. You'd have to be insane.

I am hesitant to allow my daughters to spend the night at homes with older brothers. Do you have any idea how many grown women I know that were molested by a friend's older brother or father?

Parents of boys might prefer to have male babysitters.

[Anonymous]

30 years ago, the dad always drove me home. Always smelled like liquor. So uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

10 years ago it was dad or they paid for a cab or I drove myself.

[Anonymous]

My dad used to do it then he got accused of molesting the babysitter so mom did it after that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My dad used to do it then he got accused of molesting the babysitter so mom did it after that.

So that same babysitter still sat for you? Troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My dad used to do it then he got accused of molesting the babysitter so mom did it after that.

So that same babysitter still sat for you? Troll.

NP why would you assume it was the same babysitter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also funny that everyone assumes the sitter is a girl. When my boys were younger we had a male babysitter that they adored and my 12 year old boy is starting to work as a mom/dad helper and is looking forward to babysitting when he’s a little older.

I'd never hire a boy sitter. You'd have to be insane.

I am hesitant to allow my daughters to spend the night at homes with older brothers. Do you have any idea how many grown women I know that were molested by a friend's older brother or father?

Parents of boys might prefer to have male babysitters.

Male babysitters make up like 1 percent of babysitters yet 98 percent of molestation events. No thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also funny that everyone assumes the sitter is a girl. When my boys were younger we had a male babysitter that they adored and my 12 year old boy is starting to work as a mom/dad helper and is looking forward to babysitting when he’s a little older.

I'd never hire a boy sitter. You'd have to be insane.

I am hesitant to allow my daughters to spend the night at homes with older brothers. Do you have any idea how many grown women I know that were molested by a friend's older brother or father?

Parents of boys might prefer to have male babysitters.

Male babysitters make up like 1 percent of babysitters yet 98 percent of molestation events. No thanks.

WTF? Male babysitters do not make up 98% of molestation events!

[Anonymous]

Always me, mom. It’s smart to avoid any room for accusations.

[Anonymous]

So if we go out to dinner on a date, we'll both drink. I would not drive a sitter home after that. Sitter is responsible for getting herself home, but I'll pay for her cab/rideshare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My dad used to do it then he got accused of molesting the babysitter so mom did it after that.

So that same babysitter still sat for you? Troll.

NP why would you assume it was the same babysitter?

Pp here. No, not after that incident. My father is a predator but even so, probably best to avoid these situations in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was the babysitter, it was always dad. Never had an issue and I find this discussion depressing.

Times and mores have changed.

Men have changed? I doubt it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why this would be an issue unless dad is a creep.

That’s the point. Hard to know if dad is a creep in advance. And the sexual orientation of the babysitter doesn’t matter if the dad is predatory.