I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Op, he's a jerk. Cut your losses and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: still can't get anyone to answer that number and just noticed that the uncle declined my friend request....

A) He's busy with us
B) Does your boyfriend's name start with a "T"?

Op here: no. "S"

Ah! A clue! Is he in his 20s or 30s?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I get that you're afraid to call because you're afraid of what you might hear, but you should just get it over with. I know you tried one number for the uncle, but maybe try the other one or his wife's, as someone else suggested.

Agree. Pull the bandaid off, OP. Have you actually visited your BF where he lives or has he always come to visit you? Unfortunately people lie. So once you know the truth you can move on.

(And you've given DCUM a new catchphrase #poachingbobcat. That's quite an achievement.)

Not op, but if you"re gonna ask dumb questions, please at least read the thread. They see each other a couple of times a month, and she's met several friends and family members.

[Anonymous]

Remember OP despite all your efforts to contact him he HAS NOT made any attempt to contact you. He has a table, he could have texted you from his iPad or emailed you or Facebook messaged you...
Don't just sigh in relief when you do get in touch with your boyfriend - give him the business and demand some explaining!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: still can't get anyone to answer that number and just noticed that the uncle declined my friend request....

A) He's busy with us
B) Does your boyfriend's name start with a "T"?

I see what you did there

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: still can't get anyone to answer that number and just noticed that the uncle declined my friend request....

A) He's busy with us
B) Does your boyfriend's name start with a "T"?

Op here: no. "S"

Ah! A clue! Is he in his 20s or 30s?

20s

[Anonymous]

Ok, no choice now but to call uncles wife. She may or may not out your bf to his wife, but she seems like a nice lady from FB, and she can at least tell you the truth. So sorry OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can someone please update me? I don't have time to read the last 20 pages. Last I read op was going to drive to Maine in a few hours.

I don't know where to begin. LOL.

Seriously. This might be the one time I would urge someone to go back and read the last 20 pages. You won't regret it.

[Anonymous]

there's a Stephen in NY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: still can't get anyone to answer that number and just noticed that the uncle declined my friend request....

Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I think your boyfriend has broken up with you in a most cowardly, cruel way and his uncle is aware and is closing ranks around his nephew. I mean, this many has thousands of FB friends and is a business owner...there is no reason why he should decline your friend request.

Can you tell if someone denies your friend request? On my FB page, it says the sender won't be notified if I delete the request.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can someone please update me? I don't have time to read the last 20 pages. Last I read op was going to drive to Maine in a few hours.

I don't know where to begin. LOL.

Seriously. This might be the one time I would urge someone to go back and read the last 20 pages. You won't regret it.

I was never driving to Maine

[Anonymous]

OP I'm really sorry, it doesn't mean he's breaking up with you, but it sounds like he's lying.

If he contacts you later, remember what everyone here is saying and don't fall for it. There will be other, much better, guys though it's hard to understand now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can someone please update me? I don't have time to read the last 20 pages. Last I read op was going to drive to Maine in a few hours.

I don't know where to begin. LOL.

Seriously. This might be the one time I would urge someone to go back and read the last 20 pages. You won't regret it.

+1 Wonderfully entertaining. Like a rollercoaster ride.

[Anonymous]

Can someone please update me? I don't have time to read the last 20 pages. Last I read op was going to drive to Maine in a few hours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here: still can't get anyone to answer that number and just noticed that the uncle declined my friend request....

Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I think your boyfriend has broken up with you in a most cowardly, cruel way and his uncle is aware and is closing ranks around his nephew. I mean, this many has thousands of FB friends and is a business owner...there is no reason why he should decline your friend request.

Can you tell if someone denies your friend request? On my FB page, it says the sender won't be notified if I delete the request.

Yes becauae it said "friend request sent" and now it says "add friend" again