Are you joking? Woody and Polanski got a huge response. Lots of people despise them and there will ALWAYS be asterisks by their names. As they should. But, as with Kobe, you have the apologist as well. |
Well, he was a serial adulterer, and that was a horrible thing to do for a married man. Regardless of race. I have been reading about all of this now and i had no idea what a big jerk he was to his wife. I am neither black no white. This is not the behaviour of a moral, good and decent human being. |
You misinterpret. I don't care what athletes or anyone else does. But if one's proclivities cause them to to be accused of rape, them's the breaks. It's not a great idea to choke strangers if you don't know how they might react. Good advice, whether you're famous or not. |
It's one reason that the NBA stopped drafting HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS. |
| He was a money making machine for the industry and himself so he was protected. His life worked out ok for being such a jerk. He àt least finished with basketball. Apart from that, he does not seem to be a stellar husband. No daughter should grow up under a rapist dad. |
kinda like don't wear a short skirt. |
Sweetie, it's not my "code." I couldn't possibly care less who he slept with. But I'm referring to the double standard that continues to be relied on to somehow excuse his behavior. That woman (his accuser) has been called a whore and worse on here and elsewhere. So what if she targeted rich athletes to sleep with? So what if she slept with the entire NBA. That doesn't mean she couldn't have been raped by him. Why are you being so defensive? You obviously don't know much yourself. So start with that first. |
Go read the relationships forum. Many people are in bad marriages. I’m not going to shame a man for cheating on his wife when normal people do it all the time. We’re not in their relationship. Also, Kobe and his wife have been really good the last couple of years. So seem like they were back on track. But I’m not gonna judge someone based off what they did in their marriage. John McCain died last year and he cheated on his wife to get with Cindy, yet, no one brings that up. So why do I need to give hate to Kobe for his marriage blunders? No one is perfect. Not even you. |
Some people are into choking during sex. Some are into having their hair pulled hard. Some are into doggy style. Who the hell are you to judge what people do in their bedrooms?? |
I tell you what... If you really wanna blow these folks minds tell em to consider this... If Kobe's ACCUSER was black woman, then his rape case TRULY would’ve been dismissed - I'm talking about even by investigating authorities. He never would've been charged if it was a black woman in Colorado or a black woman anywhere for that matter making the claim. That's the reality of race...black women get NO RESPECT. (see: R. Kelly - if it was little white girls you KNOW they wouldn't have locked him up a long time ago.)
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I think you've lost the plot a bit here. Kobe also was walking around free. I wholeheartedly agree that black men are always held to a higher standard than white men. But to state that Weinstein, Epstein or even Polanski or Woody Allen have wholly escaped consequences for their deplorable behavior is untrue. |
Why are you willfully misrepresenting me? Do what you like. But you're doing it wrong if it results in a police report and a rape investigation. |
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I think many of the rape apologists are also the ones who commit spousal rape. Rough sex, BDSM, bondage, swinging, multiple.partned - people can enjoy all of that as long as there is consent. No one actually gets injured to the extent that they are bleeding out from the vagina. Even bdsm has safe words. He was basically a criminal who did not get legally charged. And the continued adultery? Venessa stuck with him for her kids.
He was a great dad to any daughter or youngster who wanted to play basketball. He was not a great example to his daughters about what to look for in a spouse. |
Kobe wasn’t convicted. They settled and she walked away with money. He never went on to commit anything like that again. In fact he stayed out of the papers. Woody Allen is walking around like he did nothing. No charges. Still making movies. How long did it take to finally bring down the others? How many women had to be hurt before the others were even mentioned? |
Agreed. Kobe did not pay for his crime. People are getting upset because they do not want it even mentioned. Dude, materially he did not lose anything. As for his legacy? Whatever. If you are into basketball you will be impressed. He got away with doing the time because of who he was and because of money. Venessa and her kids are at least ok financially. I wonder how the other families will good with the losses and the financial implication. |