How would you react if your date left to go help/comfort his ex?

[Anonymous]

Say if the guy you were on a date with left your date beccause he got a call from his ex girlfriend. The ex gf had gotten beat up by her boyfriend and was calling the guy you were out with for support.

How would you feel?

How would you react?

[Anonymous]

Bye, Lance.

[Anonymous]

I would feel rejected. I would feel like he had not truly moved on from his ex. Probably wouldn't see the guy again. Too much drama in his life, and I don't want to be part of it.

[Anonymous]

Would you want a guy who ignores her distress call? Exactly.
You shouldn't see him again. Too much drama in his life.

[Anonymous]

I'd be pissed if he didn't go help after someone got beat up by a guy. Is he really just supposed to say "sorry, call someone else"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would feel rejected. I would feel like he had not truly moved on from his ex. Probably wouldn't see the guy again. Too much drama in his life, and I don't want to be part of it.

I would feel like this as well.
He obviously has not moved on from his ex plus he is still enmeshed in the drama that IS her life.

Find a guy who is wholeheartedly ready to move on.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be pissed if he didn't go help after someone got beat up by a guy. Is he really just supposed to say "sorry, call someone else"?

Right on!

[Anonymous]

If leave him alone...too much drama and still too involved with "ex". Why are they so close she would feel comfortable calling HIM? She doesn't have family, brothers or other friends? Besides I have to be your priority. Will he drop everything to take her call once you guys are in a relationship? And why's he taking calls during a date anyway??? Too many questions. And too many other unattached men out there who will gladly make YOU the priority.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If leave him alone...too much drama and still too involved with "ex". Why are they so close she would feel comfortable calling HIM? She doesn't have family, brothers or other friends? Besides I have to be your priority. Will he drop everything to take her call once you guys are in a relationship? And why's he taking calls during a date anyway??? Too many questions. And too many other unattached men out there who will gladly make YOU the priority.

*I'D* leave him alone

[Anonymous]

I'd respect him for wanting to take care of and help her. Likely a great guy. But there is far too much drama and baggage for me to want to go on another date with him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be pissed if he didn't go help after someone got beat up by a guy. Is he really just supposed to say "sorry, call someone else"?

Yes. The police.

[Anonymous]

I'd block his number. She still has her hooks in him.

[Anonymous]

Too much drama. I am out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be pissed if he didn't go help after someone got beat up by a guy. Is he really just supposed to say "sorry, call someone else"?

This.

It would speak very badly of him to not go. That said, it is too much drama. My DH and I each have ex-spouses with home we share DC. The thing I like best about DH's XW is how self-sufficient and low-drama she is as an ex and co-parent (despite having been a very high-mat. wife).

[Anonymous]

I'd be understanding about him going but I'd be wary of the relationship and the drama that will likely ensue from their interdependence.