
Were you ever pinned down by two guys and raped at a keg party? And then were you labeled a slut afterwards as word spread across area Catholic schools? Did you ever hear guys say, "Hey, let's pull a Suzy Smith tonight! Who looks good?" Because that happened. And it wasn't an isolated incident. That was the reality for several girls I know...and probably many more before and after my high school days. I'm not damaged. I'm fine. But I most certainly will not write off rape as "boys will boys" high school antics. But it sounds like you never encountered this or you simply write it off as silly boy stuff. |
So, an anonymous woman--who wishes to remain so--claims that when she was in high school --that two guys locked her in a room and held her down. She got out of the room, and now this is rape? 1. Anonymous 2. How did a girl get out of a locked room if two boys did not let her? |
I didn't know Kavanaugh in HS (I'm younger). But I'm sure you would be shocked if you knew some of the horrific stuff some area businessmen, lawyers, and car dealers did back in the day. You wouldn't believe they raped and harassed multiple girls. That would be totally out of character for the adult you know from church/school/little league. But it happened. It obviously wasn't every guy. And it's interesting how some of these guys have blocked it out. Heck, some of the friends of the victims have too. Because some of these people run in the same circles today, they have conveniently forgotten the horrific things they did in HS. One of my friends confronted another girl from HS after she had posted something indicating she had hung out with one of the guys who held down her friend as she was raped. My friend called her out privately asking how she could have done that given what he did. Her response? "Oh, I had forgotten all about that! I mean, it was decades ago! Anyway, he's so nice now..." I wonder if our generation was just desensitized to it since it was commonplace and seemingly accepted? |
Nobody knows if she was raped, but it sounds like she was assaulted. Pinning someone down isn't okay...you get that, right? I can't believe I have to explain this to you, but I'll try. You kick the guy and hopefully you are strong enough to push him off so you can run to the door and escape. Sometimes when you fight back, the attacker will actually back off. #TheMoreYouKnow |
Apparently many people know who she is and she has a stellar reputation. I think she's going to end up going public because so many people are learning her identity. |
Everyone at the party knows who she is. And it's very likely that half of the people in area Catholic high schools at the time know who she is as well. I bet she is working on a plan to go public right now. And I applaud her courage. |
I’m sorry you and your friends were victims of this horrible treatment. But don’t project your experience on an innocent man because some unknown person makes an allegation that we have learned very little about. |
Does anyone know where Kavanaugh went to grade school or what parish he grew up in?
Because there were certain feeder schools for prep, and I went to one where multiple boys did horrific things to girls. I wonder if he went to my school. |
? I haven't said I am convinced he did anything wrong...yet. All I've said is it sounds very familiar...and it was endemic at prep (and other local schools). If she goes public, I suspect it's because she is telling the truth. If this happened, she likely told her best friends. She would have run out of the room, grabbed her friends and left the party. Word would have spread. People would know. The fact that other posters have indicated that lots of people know the story and the woman leads me to believe something happened and everyone at the party and at prep heard about it. |
Kavanaugh went to Mater Dei. |
Did he start there in 1st? Do you know what parish he belonged to? Several boys from my parish switched to Mater Dei and The Heights. Most came from the most conservative families and were Opus Dei. Several had fathers who worked for the Admin or fed govt. |
Google Mark Judge, the guy who was allegedly with Kavanaugh.
I know he's trying to get out in front of it, but everything he has said makes it seem like he (Judge) would be involved with such an incident. |
I think so. He was Father John Enzler's altar boy at Little Flower in Bethesda. |
Pot meet Kettle. BTW what is in those 100k documents concerning Kavanaugh the GOP withheld from the American people?? Shenanigans? Look in the mirror!! |
Are you crazy. Bedroom doors lick from the inside and maybe she was able to fight them off because they were drunk. Just because she was able to get out doesn't mean there was no attempted rape which is a felony! |