I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Ugh - this whole situation sucks. I'm sorry OP.

It's better to just find out the truth so you know what you are dealing with.

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Anonymous wrote:Grandpa's funeral notice is online with the names of all of the relatives.

Just saying.

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Anonymous wrote:the uncle's dog has a FB page. this is the best family ever.

it includes a video of uncle j giving him (dog) an easter basket.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.

+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.

Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".

OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.

According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.

OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.

Why haven't you called his uncle?

OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

Including the second number? Because other people seemed to get through.

OP here: Maybe I was calling when others were trying but it literally rang 12 times in a row and I hung up. Tried again 5 mins ago and it did the same thing

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What a seriously weird thread.

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Anonymous wrote:the uncle's dog has a FB page. this is the best family ever.

He seems to be everywhere on social media - I kinda doubt the poaching story, but I guess you never know about people.

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I doubt your boyfriend is trying to dump you, but he is lying and likely cheating? So you should dump him as soon as he contacts you with his crazy story from this weekend.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.

+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.

Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".

OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.

According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.

OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.

Why haven't you called his uncle?

OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

Including the second number? Because other people seemed to get through.

OP here: Maybe I was calling when others were trying but it literally rang 12 times in a row and I hung up. Tried again 5 mins ago and it did the same thing

Ok, thank you for answering.

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OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

then you KEEP trying that number and the other one until you are able to get through and talk to the uncle.

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OP, can you tell us more about the boyfriend's job so that we can help you sort through things? What exactly does "hauling cows" entail? Does that mean he transports the cows from the farms to the slaughterhouses? I don't know much about cows, but I can't think of what other kind of job would involve transporting cows?

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OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

then you KEEP trying that number and the other one until you are able to get through and talk to the uncle.

OP here: I get that and I know I'm going to get flamed for this but at this point, I'm scared of knowing the truth now that all this doubt about Maine is in my mind...ugh

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OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

then you KEEP trying that number and the other one until you are able to get through and talk to the uncle.

Maybe they have caller ID and are avoiding OP's calls.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, can you tell us more about the boyfriend's job so that we can help you sort through things? What exactly does "hauling cows" entail? Does that mean he transports the cows from the farms to the slaughterhouses? I don't know much about cows, but I can't think of what other kind of job would involve transporting cows?

OP here: That and he also goes and picks up cows that the farm he works for buys and brings them back to the farm.

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The uncle is DEFINITELY THERE.

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Looking more and more like a side chick scenario...
I'm just saying.