I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?


OP not everyone is making fun of you, but you do seem to be avoiding this. Any reason? He looks very jolly on Facebook!
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Call the Uncle. It will confirm the Maine story. And having been the victim of a burner phone, clarifying the Maine story could clarify the phone part
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?


Don't bother - because it's all a lie or she is literally the dumbest human on earth.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?


OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?


OP not everyone is making fun of you, but you do seem to be avoiding this. Any reason? He looks very jolly on Facebook!


He does indeed look jolly! I'm sure he'd love to hear from everyone.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.
New poster here, OP. I can understand why you would feel worried one way or another. I hope things work out for you as best they can. Good luck!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


I know. It must really be hard to be confronted with all this. Investing in a relationship with a liar is hard. You keep giving the benefit of the doubt to him and losing trust in yourself in the process.
Anonymous
Google boyfriend's cell phone number. See what comes up.
Anonymous
Grandpa's funeral notice is online with the names of all of the relatives.

Just saying.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Google boyfriend's cell phone number. See what comes up.


I have and the only thing that comes up is that it's an AT&T number
Anonymous
the uncle's dog has a FB page. this is the best family ever.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Grandpa's funeral notice is online with the names of all of the relatives.

Just saying.


really????
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Good for you OP!!
40 some pages and 8 hours later some good ol' fashioned skepticism is finally sinking in.
We're happy to help.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys, I think it's pretty clear he's NOT poaching. He's just a coward who doesn't know how to break up with a girl.

I'm sorry, OP. You don't deserve to be treated in this manner.


+1 I'm sorry, OP. I really am. I think you're sincere but I think your boyfriend must have concocted the whole Maine hunting story. Until J was obviously not there this weekend. And based on his FB page and the FB page of his wife they aren't concerned for their nephew's well being.


Didn't the uncle drive separate? He might not know the bf is "missing".


OP here: he told me the uncle and grandfather were going up on wednesday, he went up on friday by himself.


According to the uncle's FB page, he was either in Liverpool, NY on Friday. Or home. Either way, he wasn't in Maine.


OP here: I am obviously questioning everything right now which I wasn't doing when I started this thread last night at all. I appreciate the help from those of you who are actually caring and not thinking this is funny. This has been 6+ months of my life and I NEVER thought he'd be the type to just "break up with me" like this and I still am questioning that but I am also now questioning the Maine thing too. Idk what to think or do but either way, I'd still like to know why his phones been off for 72 hours as it's really not like him at all.


Why haven't you called his uncle?


OP here: I thought I posted this already but I did try calling the work number and no one answers...it just rings and rings.

Including the second number? Because other people seemed to get through.
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