Have you found your soulmate?
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Anonymous
| Probably a dumb question, but I'm going to ask anyway. If you did, how do you know they're your soulmate? |
Anonymous
| Yeah but we'll probably get divorced this year, too bad so sad, and then the search for soulmate #2 begins. |
Anonymous
| Yes! Met in college. So grateful. |
Anonymous
I am sorry it did not work out. Best wishes with finding soulmate #2. |
Anonymous
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Yep.
I know because my soul is at ease. 
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Anonymous
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Yes.
But he lives on the other side of the world and he has a girlfriend and child. Holding out for plan B. |
Anonymous
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I think so. I knew when I could sit and talk with him on the phone for hours (back when people did such things), because we both absolutely hate talking in the phone.
We met when we were 18, started dating at 24, and have been married for 10 years so far. |
Anonymous
| Yes but I'm not his soul mate so I am out here hoping for another |
Anonymous
That's not how this works |
Anonymous
| Yes. We balance each other out perfectly, I really do think we were made for each other. I'm extremely introverted and he is the only person it isn't "work" to be around. |
Anonymous
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Sure. We understand each other and we would DEFINITELY not be good living together. So I'm with my husband.
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Anonymous
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My husband is a steady partner. He will likely never tap into the deeper aspects of me, despite my invitations. Early childhood trauma has him pretty closed up emotionally. We get closer as time goes on.
I've had soulful relationships that were not a durable. In hindsight one or the other was not ready for vulnerability. To me that signals not a soul mate. |
Anonymous
Maybe not for you. |
Anonymous
Quite interesting. |
Anonymous
That is a great way of putting how it feels. -- Someone else who found their soulmate |