How do some 5 year olds get to be little turds?

[Anonymous]

My 5 year old came home sad today because a boy who sits at her table told her and another girl at her table their word study (spelling) pages are for "babies." Obviously he is in a harder group.

She and I talked about it and she is fine, but what a little shit. I would be mortified if my kid sold this to another child.

[Anonymous]

*said* not sold

[Anonymous]

That's not cool, but I bet your 5yo also says turdish things. -mom of kid in lowest spelling group.

[Anonymous]

As said above, it wasn't nice but all kids are turds at times. I don't know a kid that hasn't said something hurtful, either intentionally or unintentionally.

[Anonymous]

I can only imagine OP's reaction if she heard another parent calling her kid a "turd" for fairly innocuous, age-appropriate behavior.

[Anonymous]

What adult uses the word "turd"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can only imagine OP's reaction if she heard another parent calling her kid a "turd" for fairly innocuous, age-appropriate behavior.

OP here. I don't agree that it's innocuous or age appropriate to tease another kid for being worse at something. We obviously teach our children different values.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can only imagine OP's reaction if she heard another parent calling her kid a "turd" for fairly innocuous, age-appropriate behavior.

OP here. I don't agree that it's innocuous or age appropriate to tease another kid for being worse at something. We obviously teach our children different values.

Apparently you also don't agree that it is inappropriate to call another child a "turd".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What adult uses the word "turd"?

I used shit in my post. And that's how I felt. I just wasn't sure if I could type shit in the title. But you are as bad as the five year old! Making fun of my word choice?

[Anonymous]

OP, it's not about 'vaules', it's just what and how little kids act. It's our job to correct that behavior and to guide them but they all do or say those kinds of things. I bet you 1 million dollars, that if you were to listen to your DDs conversations for 1 week that she will have said something 'turdish'.

Also, calling a 5 year old a turd does not speak so well of your values.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can only imagine OP's reaction if she heard another parent calling her kid a "turd" for fairly innocuous, age-appropriate behavior.

OP here. I don't agree that it's innocuous or age appropriate to tease another kid for being worse at something. We obviously teach our children different values.

Apparently you also don't agree that it is inappropriate to call another child a "turd".

Oh totally inappropriate to say that to his face. But I didn't and wouldn't. How would you describe teasing other than "normal?" Are you his mother?

[Anonymous]

The child obviously has older sibling who make fun of his work in the same manner.

[Anonymous]

While it's rude to say such things, why on earth would this elicit such a strong reaction from you, OP?

Kids say mean things to each other all the time. Some kids are nastier than others, and what this child said is pretty low on the scale. My 6 year old sits at a table where a couple of other children hide her stuff, because they think it's fun. I will talk to the teacher about it, but it's really no biggie. Same for the "it's for babies" talk.

[Anonymous]

So... a 5 year old is not allowed to say that something is for babies, but you're allowed to call him a little shit and a little turd?

Riiight. And what you need is a little perspective, here, OP.

[Anonymous]

Humans have been putting people down to feel better about themselves since the beginning of time.

I would tell her Larlo is a good speller but he has terrible people skills, which are infinitely more important in life. You can use spell check when you grow up but so far there's no app for not being an asshole...