Absolutely. |
NNP here. No, it doesn’t. (Isn’t this fun?) |
It depends on hair color. If her natural color is that dark blonde/mousy brown color, yeah, she won’t want to stop. If she has a rich bru teen color or a lighter blonde, she may be ok never doing it again or might even prefer her natural color later. But sorry, naturally mousy hair looks a lot better with highlights and she will realize this if that is her |
No, My DD (25) wants to highlight her hair and Zises said no. Too young, plus I advised DD I worry about all the chemicals affecting their body. I did tell DD if she wants to put lemon in her hair like I did when I was young, that’s fine. When she’s 18 I told her she can do what she wants if she can pay for it herself. Okay |
Bru teen color? |
highlights don't touch the skin - so no chemicals in her body also don't you know that lemon juice is essentially ACID far more corrosive and damaging to her hair than probably anything she could get done in a salon, ever |
My DD is getting them as a 15th birthday present/start of school present. This has been a rough year plus of virtual learning and is worth it to ease the transition back. |
What a bunch of snowflakes. My teens are going back, thrilled to be going back and don’t need to be bribed to go back. |
I don't think it's crazy, but I would want her to pay some part of the cost herself. More important, though, I would want to try to understand why she's not feeling good about her appearance? Is this the kind of thing that a one-time highlighting is going to change -- or will she still feel like she's not enough? Who does she feel is judging her appearance? |
How original, calling someone a snowflake. Nowhere did it seem as bribery. What is wrong with wanting to do something different? People get their kids new clothes too. You are very judgemental pp about something that is small potatoes in the larger scheme of life. |
I love you! Totally agree. |
Wow it is some twisted logic to argue that someone who doesn’t think it’s appropriate to spend $150 or more on a temporary hair treatment for a teenager is some kind of “beauty is sin” fundamentalist.
I just think that’s too much money to spend a hair treatment for a child. I’d happily treat my teen to a salon treat, but salon color is so expensive and I no from experience it can be addictive. I used box dye at that age and got good at it, and I’d happily help my kid with one of those for a little confidence boost before school. Or spend a little extra on clothes are a fun bag— I love beauty and fashion and absolutely use it as a tool to help my confidence on the first day of a new job or something. I don’t think beauty is sin! But there’s a huge difference between “yes of course we can do something special with your hair for school” and “of course, let’s spend $300+ on a cut snd color that you are probably going to want to do again in 6 months because now you think this is what is required for a confidence boost.” Come on. There’s obviously an in between. |
If you can’t afford it just say so. |
“Karen”? Really? |
New to the neighborhood I'd guess. Probably North Carolina, where they breed them insensitive from birth. |