Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.
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Anonymous
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Who initiated the idea of the weekend visit?
If you did not call or text him for a week would he contact you? Have you slept with him? Please say no...honestly, if you already did, he wouldn’t choose you even if he gets over the ex. Who paid for the plane ticket? |
Anonymous
Even if he initiated the idea and paid for it does it really matter? According to OP in the last 2 weeks he contacted the ex’s mom, liked posts clearly about his ex, made posts about her, and keeps tabs on her. So yea, does any of that matter? |
Anonymous
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So I got here early this morning, about 5 hours ago. He’s out at the store right now. I saw him out the corner of my eye go look at her Instagram story before he headed out.
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Anonymous
Sorry, OP. This is an awful situation to have placed yourself in... you knew what it was before you got on the plane. |
Anonymous
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Oh sweetie dump him.
Don’t waste another minute of your prime husband seeking years on this nonsense. There’s better, more attentive and kind men out there. |
Anonymous
Am I missing something here? Maybe because I don’t use social media that often but what’s the big deal that he looked while OP was around? |
Anonymous
He’s liking vague relationship posts made by the ex, the whole thing is juvenile and OP needs to drop this guy, he’s not relationship material - for her anyway. |
Anonymous
No, I mean what’s the big deal that he looked at his ex’s social media while OP is there with him? |
Anonymous
Read the OP then consider the answer to this question. |
Anonymous
I’m asking what’s the big that he looked once at the ex’s profile while he’s with OP. |
Anonymous
| Not that you'll accept anyone's advice, I think you should completely ditch him. Find things to do in whatever city you're visiting. Get a hotel. Ghost him. |
Anonymous
why would he? he can't go three or four days without looking at her instagram? Who's instagram accounts do you check...and why? In any event, OP, men generally rush right into something new so that they don't have to deal with the emotional work of getting over a break-up. He hasn't done that yet. He's not truly emotionally available to you. My brother strung a woman like you along for 10 years. Then he met someone he really fell for and dropped his ex. It was ugly, but predictable, if you knew him. Please trust your female friend, and that she has your best interests at heart. If you want something casual with this guy, fine. But it's not going to be more than that. |
Anonymous
| This further demonstrates his interest in the ex. That he’d go so far as to spend time looking at her profile while in your presence is disrespectful and portends troubling behavior from him in the future. There’s no justification, especially this early in a dating relationship. |
Anonymous
Get back on the plane home. You are wasting your time. He is using you to get his physical and emotional needs met while pining for another woman. Leave and don't contact him again. |
Anonymous
| This is so sad. |