Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yeah. These two deserve each other. OP has a lot to learn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yea, but that’s if the post had to do with the ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yea, but that’s if the post had to do with the ex.

It does, OP. It does. Her exact initials are written in the post. For your own sanity, please let him go. Or don’t and end up wondering later why you didn’t walk away sooner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yea, but that’s if the post had to do with the ex.

PP, don’t you think if his ex had responded to the post (like he was hoping for) he would’ve happily and swiftly canceled on OP?

It does, OP. It does. Her exact initials are written in the post. For your own sanity, please let him go. Or don’t and end up wondering later why you didn’t walk away sooner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yea, but that’s if the post had to do with the ex.

It does, OP. It does. Her exact initials are written in the post. For your own sanity, please let him go. Or don’t and end up wondering later why you didn’t walk away sooner.

PP, don’t you think if his ex had responded to the post (like he was hoping for) he would’ve happily and swiftly canceled on OP?

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. He’d probably have both of you BECAUSE HE CAN.

[Anonymous]

Oh man, op whether he is still into his ex or not (and I agree it sounds like he is, no other explanation for MED) both he and his ex are so immature - cryptic social media posts about an ex? At 30? Really really immature. Also someone that refuses to go to therapy, not a good look. I would stay far far away but doesn’t seem like we or even those close to you can convince you of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not necessarily. He’d probably have both of you BECAUSE HE CAN.

Yes, all men can but he was throwing out hints for his ex before vday for a reason. Why didn’t he thrive the hints after OP’s weekend? That’s because OP is a backup and if the person he wanted called he’d drop OP like a hot potato.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not necessarily. He’d probably have both of you BECAUSE HE CAN.

Yes, all men can but he was throwing out hints for his ex before vday for a reason. Why didn’t he thrive the hints after OP’s weekend? That’s because OP is a backup and if the person he wanted called he’d drop OP like a hot potato.

Either way, sucks for OP, but she already knows all of this and is desperate for answers when all she should do right now is run from the situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the gorilla glue post. I think seeing it makes more sense than describing it.

https://imgur.com/a/kEieRFm

And MED are her initials? Uh, OP - there are just too many red flags. If he’s actually communicating messages to his ex in this way, rather than reaching out to her directly, then he’s very emotionally immature - especially for a 30-year-old man, c’mon. And you were warned *right out of the gate* by his best friend, who knows him well, that he’s not over his ex. He’s posting these stupid things...and you are trying so, so hard to justify it to yourself.

The fact that he wants to see you for V-day doesn’t really signify anything.

The Instagram post is beyond pathetic. What a 30 year old (mature) man does that?  It made me laugh out loud. I used to do that stupid sh*t like 14 years ago when Facebook was popular. I was 20 by that time tho. I wouldn't even consider dating a grown man doing TikTok.

Yea, but that’s if the post had to do with the ex.

No, it is pathetic even if it doesn’t have to do with the ex. How old is he, 12?

[Anonymous]

Also another personality red flag - using a reference to a women’s terrible experience as a way to send a covert “I am thinking about you” message.

Also, all that matters in regards to those initials is that they are NOT YOURS!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who paid for the plane ticket?

Does it really matter? She’s going to him, not the other way around.

Why do women do this? You do not do this in the beginning of anything! It reeks of desperation!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also another personality red flag - using a reference to a women’s terrible experience as a way to send a covert “I am thinking about you” message.

Also, all that matters in regards to those initials is that they are NOT YOURS!

Eh, I wouldn’t think that deeply into. This rapper has these kind of memes made about him all the time- it’s very popular, all over the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who paid for the plane ticket?

Does it really matter? She’s going to him, not the other way around.

Why do women do this? You do not do this in the beginning of anything! It reeks of desperation!

THIS!

Not sure if you’ll agree but even if he paid if he was really into OP he’d go to her.