Question for parents who let kids use electronics with sound in public places without headphones

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

If you think that a kid playing a game or watching a show at normal volume in a public place is a little noise, then you're trying really hard to defend these people and it just makes you look ridiculous. No one is complaining about a little noise here. But keep doing whatever you want to justify bad behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never seen this. I go to restaurants, airports, and hotels, and I use public transportation. And from the responses on this thread, it seems like very few people do this, and the few that do use it only rarely, try to be as unobtrusive as possible, use it for short periods of time, and would stop if asked.

I see this all the time. Restaurants, airports, doctor's offices, it doesn't matter. Kids are constantly on devices with the volume on. No, I don't want to listen to your kid's very loud and stupid game or show, and I would never let me children do that. I have a pair of earphones in my purse at all times, although I'm not one to give my kid a phone. Play a game, talk to them. I have five-year-old twins and they have never used a device other than at home or on an airplane, both with headphones. It's not hard!

I must just be oblivious to it.
How, with five year old twins to manage in an airport or restaurant are you spending so much of your focus on other kids? My kids are constantly asking questions or wanting to look at something or talk or play a game. I usually feel like I can hardly look at the menu, let alone check out what other children are doing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because they're thoughtless assholes.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never seen this. I go to restaurants, airports, and hotels, and I use public transportation. And from the responses on this thread, it seems like very few people do this, and the few that do use it only rarely, try to be as unobtrusive as possible, use it for short periods of time, and would stop if asked.

I see this all the time. Restaurants, airports, doctor's offices, it doesn't matter. Kids are constantly on devices with the volume on. No, I don't want to listen to your kid's very loud and stupid game or show, and I would never let me children do that. I have a pair of earphones in my purse at all times, although I'm not one to give my kid a phone. Play a game, talk to them. I have five-year-old twins and they have never used a device other than at home or on an airplane, both with headphones. It's not hard!

I must just be oblivious to it.
How, with five year old twins to manage in an airport or restaurant are you spending so much of your focus on other kids? My kids are constantly asking questions or wanting to look at something or talk or play a game. I usually feel like I can hardly look at the menu, let alone check out what other children are doing.

Because their toddlers know how to sit quietly with their hands in their lap. Obviously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never seen this. I go to restaurants, airports, and hotels, and I use public transportation. And from the responses on this thread, it seems like very few people do this, and the few that do use it only rarely, try to be as unobtrusive as possible, use it for short periods of time, and would stop if asked.

I see this all the time. Restaurants, airports, doctor's offices, it doesn't matter. Kids are constantly on devices with the volume on. No, I don't want to listen to your kid's very loud and stupid game or show, and I would never let me children do that. I have a pair of earphones in my purse at all times, although I'm not one to give my kid a phone. Play a game, talk to them. I have five-year-old twins and they have never used a device other than at home or on an airplane, both with headphones. It's not hard!

I must just be oblivious to it.
How, with five year old twins to manage in an airport or restaurant are you spending so much of your focus on other kids? My kids are constantly asking questions or wanting to look at something or talk or play a game. I usually feel like I can hardly look at the menu, let alone check out what other children are doing.

Because their toddlers know how to sit quietly with their hands in their lap. Obviously.

Hahaha!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

[Anonymous]

Because parents are afraid to tell their kids no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

I said that I would never ask you to stop so . . . .

But is interesting to hear that you think you have a "right" to entertain your child by letting them listen to music or a video at high volume. That answers my question - you think it is fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

I said that I would never ask you to stop so . . . .

But is interesting to hear that you think you have a "right" to entertain your child by letting them listen to music or a video at high volume. That answers my question - you think it is fine.

Yup I absolutely do. Can we agree we are not talking a HIGH volume like blaring? But a volume such that you could hear some noise if you are sitting next to me or behind me? Then yes, I think it’s totally fine to do that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

I said that I would never ask you to stop so . . . .

But is interesting to hear that you think you have a "right" to entertain your child by letting them listen to music or a video at high volume. That answers my question - you think it is fine.

Yup I absolutely do. Can we agree we are not talking a HIGH volume like blaring? But a volume such that you could hear some noise if you are sitting next to me or behind me? Then yes, I think it’s totally fine to do that.

Well, my post said HIGH volume and you said that is your absolute right, so we are taking about a high volume.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

Trashy.

[Anonymous]

Also, you don't have necessarily have a right to use devices without headphones everywhere, as evidenced by the multiple announcements the flight attendants had to make during our flight telling people that use of devices with volume without headphones is not permitted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s not just your planet op. Get over it.

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless? It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind? They don't, because they're rude and entitled. I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.

Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you.

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it." I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public. Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable. I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself. There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!

I said that I would never ask you to stop so . . . .

But is interesting to hear that you think you have a "right" to entertain your child by letting them listen to music or a video at high volume. That answers my question - you think it is fine.

Yup I absolutely do. Can we agree we are not talking a HIGH volume like blaring? But a volume such that you could hear some noise if you are sitting next to me or behind me? Then yes, I think it’s totally fine to do that.

Well, my post said HIGH volume and you said that is your absolute right, so we are taking about a high volume.

God op get a life seriously.

[Anonymous]

Because I can and you get to deal with it.