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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not just your planet op.  Get over it.  [/quote]

By why does that same sentiment not apply to the people who are thoughtless?  It's not their planet either - so why don't they feel any sort of obligation to keep others in mind?  They don't, because they're rude and entitled.  I agree that OP needs to get over it only because people like that will never change, and while it drives me crazy, I choose to remove myself from the situation (if possible) or actively try to ignore it rather than allow some asshole to ruin my day.[/quote]
Because people are going to make a little noise and things aren’t always going to be perfect and convenient for you. [/quote]

I was the OP and by no means does the noise ruin my day. I don't need to be told to "get over it."  I asked a question because I was genuinely curious about why people allow this. I got some answers, so thanks.

Obviously, there is no rule of silence in public.  Conversations are to be expected. I am very noise sensitive, so if I find myself annoyed by a loud conversation or a screaming child, that is my problem to deal with. I would never ask someone to quiet down, nor would I ask a parent to stop their kids from using volume without headphones, simply because my version of civility involves not making people feel bad about trivial matters. At the same time, I would not use a device without headphones, nor would I let my kids do so. Manners are about considering the needs of others and avoiding making others feel uncomfortable.  I also think there is a huge difference between interacting with other people and entertaining oneself.  There is no absolute right for each of us to entertain ourselves or our kids in public however we see fit, whether that involves sound at a high volume or unruly behavior.[/quote]

Uh actually I have a complete “right” to entertain my child like this! What are you going to do op, arrest me in a doctor’s waiting room? If you asked me to turn it off I’d literally tell you to shut up. If you are sooooo noise sensitive bring your own noise canceling head phones!  [/quote]

I said that I would never ask you to stop so . . . .

But is interesting to hear that you think you have a "right" to entertain your child by letting them listen to music or a video at high volume.  That answers my question - you think it is fine.

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Yup I absolutely do.  Can we agree we are not talking a HIGH volume like blaring? But a volume such that you could hear some noise if you are sitting next to me or behind me? Then yes, I think it’s totally fine to do that.  [/quote]

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