Boy sent his nude picture to DD
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Anonymous
This is utter madness. The boys life will be ruined for one silly mistake. |
Anonymous
| This is very common among teens today. Just have your DD block him if she can on all her media. I was actually driving teens to a field trip and one of the girls was taking photos of her boobs and sending them around in group chats! She continued similar behavior when in cars with her friends' parents. My DD knows plenty of girls and boys who send similar, and yes parents are oblivious. One even talks in baby voice to her mom, junior in HS. Sadly this is very common. But, now you know to tell you DD to immediately take a screen shot and then you can go to school with evidence, or to parents of other kid. |
Anonymous
I agree, but wanted to point out that girls also do plenty of stupid things. Many girls in my child’s middle school send nudes. They’re complete idiots. |
Anonymous
And judging from the 3 last posts you just made here it looks like you're a child who is worried about getting "caught" because you've done something wrong. A consequence or two would probably do you some good. |
Anonymous
+1 I’m wondering how this poster and others who agree with him/her would feel about parents reporting girls who send nudes to the police. My son has received several unsolicited nudes from girls who have crushes on him. He simply deletes them and moves on with his life. But perhaps we should have reported these girls to the police so their lives could be ruined over their own stupid mistakes. Somehow, it’s only when boys pull this crap that parents threaten contacting the police. Ridiculous. |
Anonymous
Sorry, no. I’m a 49 year old mother of teens and none of this is new or shocking to me as it seems to be to you. There is a reasonable, measured reaction to teenaged stupidity (of BOTH genders), and then there is the manic, over-the-top, call the police reaction of people like you. I know which one I’d choose. |
Anonymous
No, while I appreciate your hyperbole, his life won't be "ruined". We can all hope, though, that he will learn the importance of boundaries and obeying the lay. Additionally, his actions also will earn him an apparently much needed consequence. In the meantime, instead of posting here perhaps you should hit the books, particularly focusing on your ELA. -Signed, a Mom of 3 Boys and 2 Girls |
Anonymous
Smile. It is a pleasure and an honor to be called a manic, over-the-top, call the police person by a parent like you. |
Anonymous
I'm the PP w/an 8th grade son and I would definitely reach out to parents and/or get advice from the school if my son was receiving explicit photos of girls. For exactly the reason that another PP said: this is behavior that lead to terrible consequences for all involved, including the sender. I don't think the police are warranted but I wouldn't want my kid just to delete the photos like it's no big deal. As parents we cannot let this behavior become normalized (a word I hate) even if it's common. We have to reinforce that this is a big f-ing deal, incredibly stupid and ultimately really dangerous. Think of it this way: I'm ancient and when I was a kid, it was pretty standard for kids to drink and drive. We knew it was wrong and risky but we did it anyway. It was only when parents/society campaigned around stopping it, that rates of DUI crashes declined. We should treat sexting the same way, whether it's a boy or a girl who does it. |
Anonymous
| Going to the police as your first move is way over the top. Stop the hysterics. Start by blocking and going to parents. If it persists, then the police are warranted. |
Anonymous
No one should be sending unsolicited nudes. You should notify the parents of the girls who are sending them. That also is |
Anonymous
You don't really know this, actually. His life could well be ruined. OP could have ruined her whole family's life as well. They can choose to seize ALL the devices of both sides, keep them for month, and charge both sides with child pornography. Just google around if you think this hasn't been done. |
Anonymous
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Police can't get the Snapchat photos. It will be your daughter's word against his. http://blog.thirdparent.com/can-police-obtain-disappearing-snapchat-pictures/ Snapchat supplied some or all of the data requested in 92% of the U.S. cases and 21% of the foreign government cases. If the pics disappear, you might be wondering what exactly the governments might be hoping to retrieve. It’s instructive to look at the most recent version of Snapchat Guide for Law Enforcement to see what is really happening. Snapchat keeps (and can turn over) pics for 30 days in the event that they haven’t been viewed by all recipients Snapchat retains records of meta data for all messages sent and received – to/from, date and time – but not the message content, and will turn over this data in response to a search warrant Snapchat has the personal info that you supplied on file – user name, email address, phone number and the date the account was created For furtive Snapchat users, the principal risk remains the chance that a recipient takes a screenshot of your picture, or otherwise manages to capture it before it is destroyed, then forwards that pic or posts it somewhere online. It is true, however, that Snapchat does have records that it will turn over to law enforcement – a fact that makes it an imperfect solution for covering your tracks if you are up to no good. |
Anonymous
| Good reason to prohibit young teens to have snap chat. It’s too tempting |
Anonymous
I do this for a living. They are not on the sender’s phone but are found on the recipient’s phone. I would link to my personal site that shows a video example of this from a previous case, but I don’t want to out myself too much and have the site referenced back to DCUM. |