Being intamite with someone else, while separated, will I be taken seriously?

[Anonymous]

Yes I agree with you trying to be honest.
Just don't jump to quickly into anything too serious.

What brought you to this site anyways? too bad you are not local

[Anonymous]

So the thing is this... I want to continue seeing this other guy.... and the spouse knows I want out.. but he has no where to go.. so I don't have the heart to kick him out. .again.. he doesn't make enough to live on his own.. and I got my family.. beating me with "AWW.. poor guy, you need to help him get his papers" WELL THAT IS WHAT I TRIED TO DO!!.. so what!? am I to stay with ball and chain to my ankle for ever!!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes I agree with you trying to be honest.
Just don't jump to quickly into anything too serious.

What brought you to this site anyways? too bad you are not local

Google brought me here.. haha!.. I am kind of embarrassed by the fact that I am probably the only out of state person commenting here lol.. I was looking for advice on my issue and ended up here..

[Anonymous]

When desperation calls.. you seek help in "google".. sounds riddiculous.. but like I said.. when desperation is driving you mad!!.. and I feel I am going mad!!..

[Anonymous]

Its all good.. Very interesting situation.
Hopefully these comments are helping you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Its all good.. Very interesting situation.
Hopefully these comments are helping you.

Well you are kind to comment.. yeah.. they all have been.. except the "You are a whore" comment.. which actually made me laugh hard.. it doesn't bug me though.. I did say I would take any opinion

[Anonymous]

You are a good sport!

[Anonymous]

Well..when you want people to give there opinion on something. you have to be ready to hear bad things.. not everyone will agree with what you think or choose to do, so I was kind of prepared for bad comments.. It is a very stressful situation for me.. and I don't know how long I can keep my sanity.. lol

[Anonymous]

I am the daydreaming pp...
Not to sound crude....but maybe all you need is to get laid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am the daydreaming pp...
Not to sound crude....but maybe all you need is to get laid.

LOL!!! Hilarious!! .. but that is my concern!!!. you see. ?? read the subject.. Will I be taken seriously if I get laid.. knowing I am still married!! HAHA!!. I feel I might go looney.. and end up in Arkham Assylum lol!!.. just kidding.. no but seriously.. I don't want to feel used.. :/

[Anonymous]

If he respects and cares about you then he will understand your situation. Hopefully that means you wont be used.
But no one can promise anything.

[Anonymous]

Very true.. very very true.. and what you say .. is what it is.. if he respects and cares he will understand the situation.. but you know?? my girlfriends say I need to play hard to get.. But how true is that?? what do you think?.. I don't like mind games.. I am upfront and to the point.. I don't like that crap about playing hard to get.. if I like the guy and we click.. why not?..

[Anonymous]

I like the way you think!
It's a balance... Not too easy or hard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like the way you think!
It's a balance... Not too easy or hard.

Can you tell what "too easy" is for you?

[Anonymous]

Don't throw yourself at him.
Make sure its mutual.