Divorced Men - How is your love life today?

[Anonymous]

^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Having sex with dozens of women college age up to my age has been the only good part of my divorce.

Everything else (half the time with kids, moving from a house to a condo, navigating schedules) hasn’t been great.

Hope you get tested regularly. Your know, even kissing is not a particular safe activity. Herpes, papilloma viruses, Epstein-Barr etc. everything transmits with skin contact

Amazing some people are just like walking trash cans !

This is like the average 25 year old these days. Young people have very high body counts

Some do but studies have come out that people in the 18-29 bracket are having less sex now than years past and half aren’t having sex at all.

[Anonymous]

I started dating women 10+ years younger than me (I’m 49) but it was way too complicated with them having kids. Then I met a 57 year old who is an empty nester and whose sexual appetite is quite amazing plus she is smart, financially independent and very fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I started dating women 10+ years younger than me (I’m 49) but it was way too complicated with them having kids. Then I met a 57 year old who is an empty nester and whose sexual appetite is quite amazing plus she is smart, financially independent and very fun.

Is she paying for dates ? Are you saying you are a hobosexual?

[Anonymous]

New poster. I am a woman fwiw. I am sure it feels good to be divorced for most men, even if after the initial period of shock and adjustment.
I mean of course if you were taken to the cleaners it can damper your joy, or if you are chubby and unattractive, but otherwise it’s a good thing to sleep with someone other than your 20-30 year long partner lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I started dating women 10+ years younger than me (I’m 49) but it was way too complicated with them having kids. Then I met a 57 year old who is an empty nester and whose sexual appetite is quite amazing plus she is smart, financially independent and very fun.

I am woman so maybe it’s not the same but for me youth is something that can’t be replaced. Interesting that it’s not always like that for men!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:New poster. I am a woman fwiw. I am sure it feels good to be divorced for most men, even if after the initial period of shock and adjustment.
I mean of course if you were taken to the cleaners it can damper your joy, or if you are chubby and unattractive, but otherwise it’s a good thing to sleep with someone other than your 20-30 year long partner lol

I have a lot of divorced male friends and some not divorced yet. It is not as easy for them to hook up as they had hoped. Some don't have a place as they have their kids at home. Some don't want anyone at their place. Some don't care for anyone, but a blowjob. Not willing to pay for it though. He is cold like a serial killer. It's like the person is not ok up there. That one also needs lots of help to 'get going'.
Some are bad in bed and won't get a second chance.
One tried to get me out for over a year. I have a feeling someone will come to his place while I'm there. I don't want him at my place for safety reasons. He is big and aggressive.
One has no money and also added that women come with drama so he hasn't been able to get laid much. He is actually good in bed, but the 5"3' height is slightly turnoff even for me.
There is not one who is a marriage material. The married ones aren't either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

I've never understood this particular piece of "logic." It's way more believable that the universe emerged from an initial state that isn't, as yet, understood than that an omniscient, omnipotent being capable of creating a universe emerged from nothing.

[Anonymous]

God is the ultimate scientist! So awesome.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

I've never understood this particular piece of "logic." It's way more believable that the universe emerged from an initial state that isn't, as yet, understood than that an omniscient, omnipotent being capable of creating a universe emerged from nothing.

I mean, yeah. The tl;dr of cosmological apologetics is exactly your point. They call that initial state "God".

Theologians then have all their work in front of them to prove what that God is like. But you are reiterating their point, not opposing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

I've never understood this particular piece of "logic." It's way more believable that the universe emerged from an initial state that isn't, as yet, understood than that an omniscient, omnipotent being capable of creating a universe emerged from nothing.

I mean, yeah. The tl;dr of cosmological apologetics is exactly your point. They call that initial state "God".

Theologians then have all their work in front of them to prove what that God is like. But you are reiterating their point, not opposing it.

The people who think God cares what people do with their genitals are emphatically not the kinds of people who confine their view of God to being some sort of nondescript, remote initial state from which the universe evolved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

I've never understood this particular piece of "logic." It's way more believable that the universe emerged from an initial state that isn't, as yet, understood than that an omniscient, omnipotent being capable of creating a universe emerged from nothing.

I mean, yeah. The tl;dr of cosmological apologetics is exactly your point. They call that initial state "God".

Theologians then have all their work in front of them to prove what that God is like. But you are reiterating their point, not opposing it.

The people who think God cares what people do with their genitals are emphatically not the kinds of people who confine their view of God to being some sort of nondescript, remote initial state from which the universe evolved.

No one's saying they are. You've switched to a different topic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started dating women 10+ years younger than me (I’m 49) but it was way too complicated with them having kids. Then I met a 57 year old who is an empty nester and whose sexual appetite is quite amazing plus she is smart, financially independent and very fun.

Is she paying for dates ? Are you saying you are a hobosexual?

Wouldn’t that be hobophobic?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ it is crazy to believe this universe and everything in it was created without a creator

I've never understood this particular piece of "logic." It's way more believable that the universe emerged from an initial state that isn't, as yet, understood than that an omniscient, omnipotent being capable of creating a universe emerged from nothing.

I mean, yeah. The tl;dr of cosmological apologetics is exactly your point. They call that initial state "God".

Theologians then have all their work in front of them to prove what that God is like. But you are reiterating their point, not opposing it.

The people who think God cares what people do with their genitals are emphatically not the kinds of people who confine their view of God to being some sort of nondescript, remote initial state from which the universe evolved.

We just copied the monkeys. They poke, lick and suck everything and everyone.

[Anonymous]

I’m a 45yo divorced man and I’ve had enough of women who are my age or younger. My 43yo ex wife was a total nightmare.
Now, I’m seeing a beautiful 60yo woman. Older women are amazing. She looks like she’s 40. Women actually get better looking as they get older.
Our relationship is amazing.