How common do you think swinging is?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know anyone that does?

Swinging from the rafters? Swinging on a swing? Swinging from branches?

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Lol violent. But we get approached all the time the couple is above average attractiveness but the wife is thin , in good shape blonde. We are early 40s. The weird part is the wife get approached by the female of the couple and says the man will just watch the women. Flattering but no thanks

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

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I don’t think it’s common. There are plenty of deeply unattractive “polycule” types out there, though 😬

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Lol violent. But we get approached all the time the couple is above average attractiveness but the wife is thin , in good shape blonde. We are early 40s. The weird part is the wife get approached by the female of the couple and says the man will just watch the women. Flattering but no thanks

What couple?

[Anonymous]

Love all these people denigrating the looks of swingers. As if DC and environs are known for good looking people! Half of you are on Ozempic.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Lol violent. But we get approached all the time the couple is above average attractiveness but the wife is thin , in good shape blonde. We are early 40s. The weird part is the wife get approached by the female of the couple and says the man will just watch the women. Flattering but no thanks

What couple?

Us , trying to talk in 3rd party

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

Bingo. Women under 30 are the hot spot. 18-30ish for a threesome. Single and still haven't hit the wall.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

Bingo. Women under 30 are the hot spot. 18-30ish for a threesome. Single and still haven't hit the wall.

They are usually not partaking in it unless they are paid sugar babies. Professional 20-30s women without kids are looking for mono relationships to get married.
Divorced women in late 30s-40s are more typical thirds , as they are exploring sexuality and open to new sciences after sexless marriages

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

Bingo. Women under 30 are the hot spot. 18-30ish for a threesome. Single and still haven't hit the wall.

They are usually not partaking in it unless they are paid sugar babies. Professional 20-30s women without kids are looking for mono relationships to get married.
Divorced women in late 30s-40s are more typical thirds , as they are exploring sexuality and open to new sciences after sexless marriages

* new experiences

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

Bingo. Women under 30 are the hot spot. 18-30ish for a threesome. Single and still haven't hit the wall.

They are usually not partaking in it unless they are paid sugar babies. Professional 20-30s women without kids are looking for mono relationships to get married.
Divorced women in late 30s-40s are more typical thirds , as they are exploring sexuality and open to new sciences after sexless marriages

20 years ago you'd be right. Not anymore in the OF world.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's fairly common where I live and some swingers are really fing annoying. When I'm out with my GF, they are very aggressive about approaching and it's nearly led to violent confrontations before. It's like they are all unicorn hunting.

Yes, it’s very hard to find a pretty woman for ENM, threesomes and swinging. I had a Silicone Valley mega figure aggressively court me for this stuff for over a year. I’m just a conventionally attractive late 40s woman with slim proportional body nothing sagging. He was f..,g in all kinds of forms and combinations and shared women with his business partners. I also was propositioned by a bi-sexual woman/international organization exec in DMV to join her and her BF. He didn’t have experience but she loved FFM threesomes and was bored with BF without inviting women to play.

It must be that you give off approachable vibes. I'm younger, slim, attrative, and have never been approached for this type of stuff. Men have hit on me, but they were at least subtle, and definitely never asked me to join a threesome. And I'm around plenty of people through work.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you imagine. Pretty women are approached to join committed couples as thirds rather often, usually by the wives as PP described. Happened twice to me without any prior sexual context (professional connections)

From my unscientific survey of couples looking for a threesome, it’s very often the woman wanting to add a woman for her to play with.

Of course and they want an attractive woman to play with. Nobody is interested in old boys

Bingo. Women under 30 are the hot spot. 18-30ish for a threesome. Single and still haven't hit the wall.

They are usually not partaking in it unless they are paid sugar babies. Professional 20-30s women without kids are looking for mono relationships to get married.
Divorced women in late 30s-40s are more typical thirds , as they are exploring sexuality and open to new sciences after sexless marriages

20 years ago you'd be right. Not anymore in the OF world.

OF are paid sugar babies. We are taking here about them or partners who do it for own pleasure/sexual exploration ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Swinging is more common than you think, but it's going out of fashion because younger generations are more likely to have semi-fluid boundaries in their relationships anyway. They don't need to swing.

25% of adults in the USA have tried it at some point during their lifetimes, according to studies.

Open marriages and swinging are not widespread, with current estimates suggesting around 4-5% of U.S. adults are currently involved in a regular basis in consensual non-monogamy (CNM), which includes open relationships and swinging, though many more have explored it at some point during their lifetimes. While these are minority lifestyles, they are more common than often thought, with roughly one in 25 couples currently participating in CNM.

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