How common do you think swinging is?

[Anonymous]

There's definitely a pocket of them in Montgomery County, mainly feds, CIA, DoD and educators. Most empty nesters, by many years. Ask me how I know. 🍍

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There's definitely a pocket of them in Montgomery County, mainly feds, CIA, DoD and educators. Most empty nesters, by many years. Ask me how I know. 🍍

How do you know?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell yourself it’s super common if that turns you on.

Tell yourself it’s not common if that makes you feel better.

Who cares.

This.

It’s as common as you want or need it to be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Swinging is more common than you think, but it's going out of fashion because younger generations are more likely to have semi-fluid boundaries in their relationships anyway. They don't need to swing.

25% of adults in the USA have tried it at some point during their lifetimes, according to studies.

Open marriages and swinging are not widespread, with current estimates suggesting around 4-5% of U.S. adults are currently involved in a regular basis in consensual non-monogamy (CNM), which includes open relationships and swinging, though many more have explored it at some point during their lifetimes. While these are minority lifestyles, they are more common than often thought, with roughly one in 25 couples currently participating in CNM.

Those numbers seem high. But I have no basis to support that the numbers are lower. I say this solely on being married for 15 years, and I/wife have never been approached about potential interest in swinging, threesome, poly, etc. Nor have heard of, or seen indication of, friends or others in our circles that engage. Of course, I probably wouldn’t pick up on the signs.

[Anonymous]

I’ve known a few couples I suspected were swingers but I have no proof. If people want to swing go for it. It’s certainly not for me as my husband keeps me very happy sexually and some other guy might be a big disappointment.

[Anonymous]

I’m clueless on this and people having affairs. I remember working in a large office with a number of people who were having affairs and I was oblivious to it.

[Anonymous]

Very uncommon. I’ve treated thousands of patients over my career and this is something we’d discuss. Only met one couple and I think there was trafficking.

[Anonymous]

There’s a work colleague that I see maybe four times a year, he’s usually tan and he and his wife are just getting back from somewhere.
As we’ve gotten friendlier I asked where he was and just in the past year he’s mentioned Jamaica twice and a cruise with friends from “Vegas”. The most recent time I saw him I asked him the name of the resort in Jamaica since he seems to like it so much and he couldn’t tell me the name……. I think we all know what’s going on here lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s a work colleague that I see maybe four times a year, he’s usually tan and he and his wife are just getting back from somewhere.
As we’ve gotten friendlier I asked where he was and just in the past year he’s mentioned Jamaica twice and a cruise with friends from “Vegas”. The most recent time I saw him I asked him the name of the resort in Jamaica since he seems to like it so much and he couldn’t tell me the name……. I think we all know what’s going on here lol.

Some of the Sandals type resorts have a reputation for swinging. I guess if you are interested in it and have never tried it that’s a good place to start. Something tells me you also have to be into tattoos and gold chains. I’m sure some cruise line has a swingers week.

[Anonymous]

“The first rule of fight club is . . . “

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's definitely a pocket of them in Montgomery County, mainly feds, CIA, DoD and educators. Most empty nesters, by many years. Ask me how I know. 🍍

How do you know?

Because I connected with a woman on FEELD who fit this profile and literally had numerous couples that they'd have regular standing dates with. They have kids ages 25, 27 and 30(ish).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know two couples that do this. I would guess it's more than 1% of marriages, less than 10%? That's just a guess though.

I would guess even less with couples with kids living at home?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's definitely a pocket of them in Montgomery County, mainly feds, CIA, DoD and educators. Most empty nesters, by many years. Ask me how I know. 🍍

How do you know?

Because I connected with a woman on FEELD who fit this profile and literally had numerous couples that they'd have regular standing dates with. They have kids ages 25, 27 and 30(ish).

So gross ! How old were all these people ? I can’t imagine wanting to swing with some sagging old b.ls

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's definitely a pocket of them in Montgomery County, mainly feds, CIA, DoD and educators. Most empty nesters, by many years. Ask me how I know. 🍍

How do you know?

Because I connected with a woman on FEELD who fit this profile and literally had numerous couples that they'd have regular standing dates with. They have kids ages 25, 27 and 30(ish).

So gross ! How old were all these people ? I can’t imagine wanting to swing with some sagging old b.ls

Get out of your comfort zone, the math will math.

[Anonymous]

If it's common I wouldn't know because none of the people we know have openly told us that they are swingers. We personally will not have sex with other people. But we also don't care if other people choose to f**k other people. You have one life to live so enjoy it to the fullest. Every time I have sex with my wife, it's like the first time. Her pussy still fell and tastes amazing. 17 years married.