How common do you think swinging is?
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Anonymous
| Do you know anyone that does? |
Anonymous
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Tell yourself it’s super common if that turns you on.
Tell yourself it’s not common if that makes you feel better. Who cares. |
Anonymous
| Men telling their wives it's common is common. |
Anonymous
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I really have no interest in knowing whether any of my friends or families are swingers. No judgment, it’s just more info than I need.
If I had to guess it’s more common than you think but still not very common. |
Anonymous
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+ 1 Who cares |
Anonymous
| Swinging is more common than you think, but it's going out of fashion because younger generations are more likely to have semi-fluid boundaries in their relationships anyway. They don't need to swing. |
Anonymous
| DH and I used to have threesome/foursomes in our younger years and knew quite a few people who did too. Then kids come into the picture and it becomes less common. It's been probably about 2 years for us. Our thing is that DH loves to see me with others |
Anonymous
Its not very common and there are two types of couples who do it, ones who hide it as a secret and one who tries to proof and turn it into a norm. Normal people don't swing. If they are unhappy, they work on their marriage or divorce. |
Anonymous
| I know people that are into it. Not my thing or DHs thing, but I don’t judge. |
Anonymous
Its just sad on so many levels. |
Anonymous
| I only know previously married people who were into it. |
Anonymous
How old are you? |
Anonymous
| I know two couples that do this. I would guess it's more than 1% of marriages, less than 10%? That's just a guess though. |
Anonymous
Oh, if you only knew... |
Anonymous
| Quite rare, I imagine. But of course it happens. |