An insane surrogacy story

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Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


Complaints are meaningless. Crazy people can allege anything in a complaint and often do. It is nothing approaching actual evidence.

The Wired article meticulously picks through the evidence. Nothing supports the idea that the IP was anything other than fully in the wrong. The court losses and lawyers that have walked away are also significant indicators of the weaknesses of the IP’s claims.


IP is represented by a partner at BakerHostetler. This isn’t some silly ambulance chasing lawsuit.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, anyone who is considering being a surrogate should read this article. The fact that Bi contacted psychics then used their "visions" to harass the woman is beyond insane.


And contacted her son directly, sending him a picture of the dead infant. I mean, wtf? This woman is a raging insane narcissist.


+1. The son is 7 yo and the crazy woman sent a picture of the stillborn kid his mother carried for her to him. These surrogacy agency didn’t vet the rich crazy intended mom well (she’s bipolar and couldn’t carry a kid because of the meds) and the mom.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


"Story" is the operative word.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


Complaints are meaningless. Crazy people can allege anything in a complaint and often do. It is nothing approaching actual evidence.

The Wired article meticulously picks through the evidence. Nothing supports the idea that the IP was anything other than fully in the wrong. The court losses and lawyers that have walked away are also significant indicators of the weaknesses of the IP’s claims.


IP is represented by a partner at BakerHostetler. This isn’t some silly ambulance chasing lawsuit.


The Wired article said this crazy lady is on her 9th lawyer (and 6th live in nanny.) she said people see her profile and assume she can pay but she’s racked up nearly a million dollars in legal bills and is in arrears at least 200k to one.
Anonymous
Interestingly, she has very few (for now) negative comments in her Instagram page. One of her posts suggests she’s been swindled by another surrogate agency.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interestingly, she has very few (for now) negative comments in her Instagram page. One of her posts suggests she’s been swindled by another surrogate agency.


You can delete posts.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


"Story" is the operative word.


+1

I don’t see a world where IP is in the right.
Anonymous
The intended parent sounds like she’s having a manic episode (she’s diagnosed bipolar) and has decided to ruin the life of her surrogate for having a stillbirth (bipolar lady’s second surrogate had similar problems with placental issues leading the author to suggest that some of them were related to the parents’ genetic material.)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


Complaints are meaningless. Crazy people can allege anything in a complaint and often do. It is nothing approaching actual evidence.

The Wired article meticulously picks through the evidence. Nothing supports the idea that the IP was anything other than fully in the wrong. The court losses and lawyers that have walked away are also significant indicators of the weaknesses of the IP’s claims.


IP is represented by a partner at BakerHostetler. This isn’t some silly ambulance chasing lawsuit.


No she is not. She's represented by Doug Rochen, a plaintiff's lawyer who took the case on a contingency fee. And I will guarantee you that the case will never go anywhere because in order for it to go anywhere Rochen knows that he needs the surrogate dropped as a defendant so that he can call her as a witness so that he can effectively go after the hospital - because that's where the money is. And Bi is never going to agree to that.
Anonymous
I hope the surrogate puts up a go fundme to get some legal representation to sue the pants off this vindictive psycho. I’m not a lawyer but harassment and defamation has definitely been done
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


Complaints are meaningless. Crazy people can allege anything in a complaint and often do. It is nothing approaching actual evidence.

The Wired article meticulously picks through the evidence. Nothing supports the idea that the IP was anything other than fully in the wrong. The court losses and lawyers that have walked away are also significant indicators of the weaknesses of the IP’s claims.


IP is represented by a partner at BakerHostetler. This isn’t some silly ambulance chasing lawsuit.


No she is not. She's represented by Doug Rochen, a plaintiff's lawyer who took the case on a contingency fee. And I will guarantee you that the case will never go anywhere because in order for it to go anywhere Rochen knows that he needs the surrogate dropped as a defendant so that he can call her as a witness so that he can effectively go after the hospital - because that's where the money is. And Bi is never going to agree to that.


Why would he take a case on contingency if he knows he has no way of winning?
Anonymous
Yes, this Cindy Bi lady is INSANE!! I almost posted this in the infertility forum, but I just knew they'd all be on her side.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is the rare article that changed my mind on a subject. I used to have a live-and-let-live attitude about surrogacy, but this story shows just how horrifically people can take advantage of one another. And the poor children who are created are considered products to buy. The most unfortunate person in the whole article is the baby girl who has to be raised by this totally unstable narcissist.


Yes - this is why India decided to ban surrogacy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.

Cindy, is it you?

The surrogate's ex husband was still on her lease, plenty of people have been in that situation. Cindy breached the contract and went off her meds.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did the rich person do?

I’m not going to read a long article. Usually these things can be summarized in a few sentences.


Everything possible to try to wreck the life of the surrogate who experienced still birth while hospitalized. Suing her, cutting off payments, leaving surrogate on the hook for hospital bills (including weeks of inpatient monitoring). Bi wants her to go to jail, lose her own son, etc.

Also mentions that placental problems are due to the dna of the embryo and this isn’t routinely disclosed to the GC. Gestational diabetes, placenta previa, abruption, etc.

Bi also said her next GC was perfect, despite the fact that her GC experienced severe bleeding necessitating an emergency hysterectomy and ICU admission with intubation.



Alternative version: GC lied to IPs about her living situation and concealed material information from them throughout pregnancy, including a placental abruption. She then made a series of poor decisions that killed the fetus.


The evidence at hand — which seems to be substantial and is detailed in the article — does not support this whatsoever.


Read the complaint that the IPs filed. It tells a very different story.


I see the IF mommas who read Cindy's FB pages have entered the chat.
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