Can a man's cheating turn a woman gay?

Anonymous
I know a lot of women who experienced sex with other women in college. I don't know but it seems to me that s lot of women like both d**k and p**y
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Anonymous wrote:Doubtful. Most women are naturally bi. She probably just got bored and moved on to whatever was available.


Op here. I admire some women for their beauty as well as some men but I don't want anything sexual with the women. I don't think most women are naturally bi.


I don't know how old you are, and I'm not particularly interested in being sexual with women, either, but I think you aren't giving the younger generation enough thought - young adults, those rising through HS and college and early 20s right now are a LOT more open, sexually, than you yourself may be. Yes, I do know some young women who date men - but mostly I the young women I know date both men and women. Or just women.

I'm not interested in going down on a woman at all, but is that just socialization? Because why in my right mind am I willing to go down on a man? I mean, come on.


Heterosexual men aren’t all that interested in cunnilingus, either…
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Anonymous wrote:Doubtful. Most women are naturally bi. She probably just got bored and moved on to whatever was available.


Op here. I admire some women for their beauty as well as some men but I don't want anything sexual with the women. I don't think most women are naturally bi.


I don't know how old you are, and I'm not particularly interested in being sexual with women, either, but I think you aren't giving the younger generation enough thought - young adults, those rising through HS and college and early 20s right now are a LOT more open, sexually, than you yourself may be. Yes, I do know some young women who date men - but mostly I the young women I know date both men and women. Or just women.

I'm not interested in going down on a woman at all, but is that just socialization? Because why in my right mind am I willing to go down on a man? I mean, come on.


Heterosexual men aren’t all that interested in cunnilingus, either…


And this is why women are starting to get bored with men. If men are much more dangerous, uncaring, and also not really interested in sex with you especially as you age, you can be heterosexual and still be open to experimentation simply by realizing that a heterosexual relationship will not live up to any expectations and could easily become dangerous.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doubtful. Most women are naturally bi. She probably just got bored and moved on to whatever was available.


Op here. I admire some women for their beauty as well as some men but I don't want anything sexual with the women. I don't think most women are naturally bi.


I don't know how old you are, and I'm not particularly interested in being sexual with women, either, but I think you aren't giving the younger generation enough thought - young adults, those rising through HS and college and early 20s right now are a LOT more open, sexually, than you yourself may be. Yes, I do know some young women who date men - but mostly I the young women I know date both men and women. Or just women.

I'm not interested in going down on a woman at all, but is that just socialization? Because why in my right mind am I willing to go down on a man? I mean, come on.


Heterosexual men aren’t all that interested in cunnilingus, either…


You are crazy… love eating p
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Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸


Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.


Did your GF have experience with women? Was it centered around your husband or you two were engaged? I’m a woman and a man I dated and liked very much wanted it. I declined. Now I regrets it because I think it would be very pleasurable. I’m mildly attracted to women, too /bi-curious


She said she had briefly when in college. All three of us were very engaged though she was the center of attention. It was pleasurable and also surreal at the same time.


Your husband wasn’t asking to repeat the experience or tried to see her again after that ? Did you trust her completely ?


No, but he did say it was up to me in terms of a repeat. It's been a year and there has been no repeat but I wouldn't be opposed to it. She lives far from us so that's a reason for not repeating.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I know a lot of women who experienced sex with other women in college. I don't know but it seems to me that s lot of women like both d**k and p**y


I agree as I think college was a time to experience a lot of new and different things. I was a bit of a wild child but now I'm the opposite.
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Anonymous wrote:I know a lot of women who experienced sex with other women in college. I don't know but it seems to me that s lot of women like both d**k and p**y


I agree as I think college was a time to experience a lot of new and different things. I was a bit of a wild child but now I'm the opposite.
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You had another lady eating your p****?

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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know a lot of women who experienced sex with other women in college. I don't know but it seems to me that s lot of women like both d**k and p**y


I agree as I think college was a time to experience a lot of new and different things. I was a bit of a wild child but now I'm the opposite.
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You had another lady eating your p****?



NP - women are better at it than men because they know what they like.
Anonymous
In college or right after? Sure. Now in my 40s probably not. But womens bodies are much nicer than mens.
Anonymous
I think a man’s cheating can turn a woman gay but only if she is bi curious to begin with. Women have far more “emotional” intimacy with other woman than men have with men. If a woman has been cheated on that emotional intimacy could turn physical.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doubtful. Most women are naturally bi. She probably just got bored and moved on to whatever was available.


Op here. I admire some women for their beauty as well as some men but I don't want anything sexual with the women. I don't think most women are naturally bi.


I don't know how old you are, and I'm not particularly interested in being sexual with women, either, but I think you aren't giving the younger generation enough thought - young adults, those rising through HS and college and early 20s right now are a LOT more open, sexually, than you yourself may be. Yes, I do know some young women who date men - but mostly I the young women I know date both men and women. Or just women.

I'm not interested in going down on a woman at all, but is that just socialization? Because why in my right mind am I willing to go down on a man? I mean, come on.


Heterosexual men aren’t all that interested in cunnilingus, either…


You are crazy… love eating p


+1 I could eat p all day (and have, including this past Saturday, and the previous Thursday night, and the Sunday before that ... she was ecstatic)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doubtful. Most women are naturally bi. She probably just got bored and moved on to whatever was available.


Op here. I admire some women for their beauty as well as some men but I don't want anything sexual with the women. I don't think most women are naturally bi.


I don't know how old you are, and I'm not particularly interested in being sexual with women, either, but I think you aren't giving the younger generation enough thought - young adults, those rising through HS and college and early 20s right now are a LOT more open, sexually, than you yourself may be. Yes, I do know some young women who date men - but mostly I the young women I know date both men and women. Or just women.

I'm not interested in going down on a woman at all, but is that just socialization? Because why in my right mind am I willing to go down on a man? I mean, come on.


Heterosexual men aren’t all that interested in cunnilingus, either…


You are crazy… love eating p



You are a sample size of one.
Anonymous
OP I’m an example of what you are describing. I am physically and sexually attracted to men. But after dating them for years I find I am not emotionally attracted to them. They are selfish, liars, cheaters, manipulators, think poorly of women, and many need therapy but don’t get it. I’m over it. I’m now exploring dating women as a result.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP I’m an example of what you are describing. I am physically and sexually attracted to men. But after dating them for years I find I am not emotionally attracted to them. They are selfish, liars, cheaters, manipulators, think poorly of women, and many need therapy but don’t get it. I’m over it. I’m now exploring dating women as a result.


It's the male lack of emotional connection that has me bi curious. I'm not sure how to pursue it without saying I'm gay. It would be nice to meet someone who is attractive and also bi curious so we can see what it's like.
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