Can a man's cheating turn a woman gay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My gay women friends had been raped in the past.

How is that even possible?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had couple female crashes in high school which I never pursued. So I was bi-curious. The thoughts about these women were sexual from the start: I wanted to touch their breast, kiss them etc.

Then I got married to my second male partner and we had a 16 years long marriage. He was a horrid husband -cheated, screamed etc

Post divorce dating men is very unimpressive. As a result, I was in a poly relationship for a year (2 women +1man). It ended as I didn’t feel central enough in the poly setting, but sexually I was very happy sleeping with both of them.

I’m now dating interchangeably both men and women.

I’m feminine not a short hair lesbian.

Maybe you are just a lesbian and that is why you have relationship problems with men? I can see how any hetero gay marriage could be very problematic for the hetero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had couple female crashes in high school which I never pursued. So I was bi-curious. The thoughts about these women were sexual from the start: I wanted to touch their breast, kiss them etc.

Then I got married to my second male partner and we had a 16 years long marriage. He was a horrid husband -cheated, screamed etc

Post divorce dating men is very unimpressive. As a result, I was in a poly relationship for a year (2 women +1man). It ended as I didn’t feel central enough in the poly setting, but sexually I was very happy sleeping with both of them.

I’m now dating interchangeably both men and women.

I’m feminine not a short hair lesbian.

Maybe you are just a lesbian and that is why you have relationship problems with men? I can see how any hetero gay marriage could be very problematic for the hetero.

I love men and c..k

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had couple female crashes in high school which I never pursued. So I was bi-curious. The thoughts about these women were sexual from the start: I wanted to touch their breast, kiss them etc.

Then I got married to my second male partner and we had a 16 years long marriage. He was a horrid husband -cheated, screamed etc

Post divorce dating men is very unimpressive. As a result, I was in a poly relationship for a year (2 women +1man). It ended as I didn’t feel central enough in the poly setting, but sexually I was very happy sleeping with both of them.

I’m now dating interchangeably both men and women.

I’m feminine not a short hair lesbian.

Maybe you are just a lesbian and that is why you have relationship problems with men? I can see how any hetero gay marriage could be very problematic for the hetero.

Nah you are just another woman who wants her cake and eat it too.

[Anonymous]

No. My ex boyfriend years ago was pretty awful during our relationship but that didn’t make me suddenly sexually attracted to other women. I have always been physically attracted to men

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My gay women friends had been raped in the past.

How is that even possible?

Raped by men, you moron.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My gay women friends had been raped in the past.

How is that even possible?

Rape is a type of sexual assault involving sexual intercourse, or other forms of sexual penetration, carried out against a person without their consent.

So if a woman forces herself in another woman, it's possible. Genital to genital contact isn't the only way someone can be raped

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious because I saw that raven from that's so raven claim that she started dating woman after a man her ex-boyfriend cheated and made another woman pregnant and a man is interested in me that had cheated on his ex-wife with a married woman while he was married himself and she later started dating woman after their divorce. So can men really make a woman want to date other women?

Please stop with the misinformation. Being gay is not a choice. You can’t become gay. People are born gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women are some of the most homophobic people I have ever met. They will be friends with gay people, they will say all the right things etc...But when they are comfortable around straight men their true feelings about gay people come out.

Usually, the women who are the most hateful toward the gay community are almost always closeted themselves.

[Anonymous]

I know quite a few divorced professional women in their 40s in NoVA/DC who have female side friends. Most started these relationships after their divorce and they keep it on the DL. It’s a much bigger number than you’d think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸

Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸

Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.

I sounds like you actually enjoyed being with a woman even if you prefer your husband. For your husband it was probably a dream come true! I think it’s the ultimate male fantasy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸

Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.

Did your GF have experience with women? Was it centered around your husband or you two were engaged? I’m a woman and a man I dated and liked very much wanted it. I declined. Now I regrets it because I think it would be very pleasurable. I’m mildly attracted to women, too /bi-curious

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸

Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.

Did your GF have experience with women? Was it centered around your husband or you two were engaged? I’m a woman and a man I dated and liked very much wanted it. I declined. Now I regrets it because I think it would be very pleasurable. I’m mildly attracted to women, too /bi-curious

She said she had briefly when in college. All three of us were very engaged though she was the center of attention. It was pleasurable and also surreal at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Def would consider it. I agree with the idea that women are likely more open to varied experiences. Maybe I’m bi and don’t know it 🥸

Last year I had a bi experience and my husband was involved. We were traveling with a GF of mine and too much late night champagne and dancing ended with us all together. I guess I was bi curious otherwise it wouldn’t have happened. Now I can understand why some women prefer women as a sexual partner but I still prefer my husband.

Did your GF have experience with women? Was it centered around your husband or you two were engaged? I’m a woman and a man I dated and liked very much wanted it. I declined. Now I regrets it because I think it would be very pleasurable. I’m mildly attracted to women, too /bi-curious

She said she had briefly when in college. All three of us were very engaged though she was the center of attention. It was pleasurable and also surreal at the same time.

Your husband wasn’t asking to repeat the experience or tried to see her again after that ? Did you trust her completely ?