DH demanding sex

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So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

It is? Why? serious question. What is so hard about having sex for most women? I get that you don't want it but for women who do, and enjoy the same frequency as their man, is there something hard about having sex for women?

NP here. I love sex but assuming my partner is at least average size and lasts more than 2 mins, I get sore. Every other day is great. 2 days in a row or 2x a day is fun once in a while, but yes - too much can be hard… and just not that enjoyable.

Op here. Right. Average size is actually 5.25”. My husband is 6.5”. I’m sore after if we go multiple days in a row.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Personally, I'd have no problem with this.

Nightly sex is a lot for me right now. We are having sex twice a week. He wants it daily or at least 4 times a week.

I have a lot of help but it’s still tiring when you’re a mom to two young active kids.

It’s really not. But enjoy your comfortable life because he will start to resent you and have an affair.

Because he is going to fill his needs with or without you.

everyone is different. Would you feel differently if it was demanded of you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Op here. I haven’t been responding much because I was busy with my kids.

He has had many talks with me about his expectations. Last night he told me I’m not giving him enough sex and he expects it because of “ all of this” and used his arms to show it. He elaborated that he works hard for me to have the luxuries I do and all he expects is frequent sex. He gave me 8 weeks to heal and now it’s time we get back to frequent sex. That to me is demanding.

[Anonymous]

I recoil viscerally when I think of a man demanding sex from a women he feels entitled to get it from.

Might be the biggest turn off of all time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Personally, I'd have no problem with this.

Nightly sex is a lot for me right now. We are having sex twice a week. He wants it daily or at least 4 times a week.

I have a lot of help but it’s still tiring when you’re a mom to two young active kids.

It’s really not. But enjoy your comfortable life because he will start to resent you and have an affair.

Because he is going to fill his needs with or without you.

He won’t cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Yes she did: Plus she also does oral

Op here. Your man may be a a minute man but mine isn’t. My husband loves foreplay and lasts a while. He doesn’t want a starfish. He wants multiple positions and enthusiasm. Sex usually lasts 20-30 minutes for quick sessions. Doing that at least 4 times a week when you’re tired isn’t easy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Op here. I haven’t been responding much because I was busy with my kids.

He has had many talks with me about his expectations. Last night he told me I’m not giving him enough sex and he expects it because of “ all of this” and used his arms to show it. He elaborated that he works hard for me to have the luxuries I do and all he expects is frequent sex. He gave me 8 weeks to heal and now it’s time we get back to frequent sex. That to me is demanding.

Op,

I'm sorry but,you married a jerk. I would rather lose some of the 'all of this' and not give him daily sex. Tell him the expectation is a big turn off. The more he demands the less you want it. I would either do without spa day, massages etc or get myself a part time job so I could treat myself better.

Buy him a blow up doll for the days you don't have sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

I also want sex 4 times a week but I get it once a year. So husband is a jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Withholding it is spousal abuse generally. If you dont want to do it, get a divorce and free him.

Well, forced sex is rape.

And exchanging sex for financial support is prostitution…so I suggest marriage counseling.

(In one hand, it seems like a compromise is in order—like 3x a week. On the other hand, I have NO idea how you could enjoy sex if you know your partner isn’t into it. Just buy a blow up doll for God’s sake!)

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Op here. I haven’t been responding much because I was busy with my kids.

He has had many talks with me about his expectations. Last night he told me I’m not giving him enough sex and he expects it because of “ all of this” and used his arms to show it. He elaborated that he works hard for me to have the luxuries I do and all he expects is frequent sex. He gave me 8 weeks to heal and now it’s time we get back to frequent sex. That to me is demanding.

That’s terrible. So this is a change? He
wasn’t like this after kid #1?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Yes she did: Plus she also does oral

Op here. Your man may be a a minute man but mine isn’t. My husband loves foreplay and lasts a while. He doesn’t want a starfish. He wants multiple positions and enthusiasm. Sex usually lasts 20-30 minutes for quick sessions. Doing that at least 4 times a week when you’re tired isn’t easy.

No, that wasn’t the question. She just answered.

[Anonymous]

So if you said "I'm happy to make it happen for you whenever you like but honestly I am too wiped and hormonal to be into it the way I was when we did not have a literal infant" what would he say?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Op here. I haven’t been responding much because I was busy with my kids.

He has had many talks with me about his expectations. Last night he told me I’m not giving him enough sex and he expects it because of “ all of this” and used his arms to show it. He elaborated that he works hard for me to have the luxuries I do and all he expects is frequent sex. He gave me 8 weeks to heal and now it’s time we get back to frequent sex. That to me is demanding.

That to me is DISGUSTING.

Did you say, “I gave you hours of excruciating labor and months of pregnancy, so you owe me this ?”

He has VERY screwed up ideas about gender, as well as marriage.

You OWE him sex because he let you heal?????

🤮

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Withholding it is spousal abuse generally. If you dont want to do it, get a divorce and free him.

Lol

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
So why aren’t you having sex w your husband?
May want to have a convo with him on what the issues are..

I’m tired and don’t want nightly sex. I feel the max I can have is twice a week. He wants at least 4 times a week. That’s hard for most women.

Most women don't have 24/7 childcare help and spa days

Your kids are young but tha'ts suspicious as you only mentioned it when people were laying into you. Final verdict: troll

She also didn’t answer the question on how he is “demanding.”

Op here. I haven’t been responding much because I was busy with my kids.

He has had many talks with me about his expectations. Last night he told me I’m not giving him enough sex and he expects it because of “ all of this” and used his arms to show it. He elaborated that he works hard for me to have the luxuries I do and all he expects is frequent sex. He gave me 8 weeks to heal and now it’s time we get back to frequent sex. That to me is demanding.

Do you live in Iran or Saudi Arabia or something? That sounds straight out of the Koran.