Mine chose trade school. He loves learning but can't stand the thought of sitting in endless classrooms for more years.
He's doing well and all his friends are college students. Including men. We're both academics so go figure. He does vote democrat, though. He's working in green energy so I don't know how that will play out over the next years. |
Wow, page one and some troll found a way to make this about their personal animosity towards people who choose not to work. Get a life. |
Again, show me the evidence of where men are having trouble gaining admission to college. Does it actually exist? Is there evidence that men are applying to college and being shut out and therefore being excluded from getting college degrees?
Or are we talking about an increasing trend of men opting out of college for a variety of reasons, and men dropping out at higher rates than women. If this is a choice men are making then you can't blame the education system or how SATs are scored or programs that are designed to recruit women into STEM. Unless you can actually show evidence that men are being shut out of college, this is about male preference, not discrimination. |
Education is a funnel. And over the past decade or two, the funnel has been designed to funnel away boys, starting in kindergarten. Try to find a stem enrichment opportunity explicitly for young men. You can't. There are zero. Then look for one for young women. There are dozens upon dozens. That is just one example among many. |
+1 PP is committing the fallacy of exception. And probably has money too. |
That’s great! I’m sure he will be in a goid place to rise to the top in a few years when this nonsense blows over. |
You can't be serious. You are completely and intentionally missing the issues. |
this is a very real factor. teacher of Gifted&Talented...the intelligence is the same, the organizational skills of females are 1.5-2 yrs ahead. Males are not as supported in our educational system. In GT with smaller groupings we can do a lot of creative out of box thinking and cater to both types of minds. Colleagues in private schools report the same. All-male schools often have a lot of success with boys. Most public schools cannot individualize this. I am a female teacher. Most of my colleagues are. Many of us have raised sons and daughters in addition to teaching them; Boys need more support. Giving Boys more support does not mean giving girls less: keep the women in stem and all the important stuff added over the years to help girls; add support specifically for the ways boys learn, and ways to encourage college and make it an obvious attainable choice. |
I admire your optimism. I have none at this point and I am trying really had to not pass on this doubt to DS - and other people his age. We gotta stay positive - |
In our public universities, only 60% of men manage to graduate. |
I'm happy with CS at UMD. |
I wholeheartedly agree, and it needs to change. So many moms of boys agree--we see this! |
Np. Wrong. I am a dem with no political motivation to post. My kid who graduated with excellent grades from a top public university has gotten very few interviews. We have hired resume/interview coaches. Kid has friends from all the local universities in the same boat. Stem majors/engineers who are not getting jobs. Most are going back for grad school. The only kids we see getting jobs are the Indian kids who are able to say they have experience because they say on their resume they worked for a company that it non existent or a family member's small consulting company where they may or may not have worked. |
You are referring to the period between 2009 and 2015 when the SAT composite score was out of 2400. The test changed back to half math/half verbal in 2016. All current college students who took the SAT would have done so after 2016. (The National Merit Scholarship Program is still based on a selection index that is 2/3 verbal, 1/3 math.) I agree (with whichever PPs) that test optional admission policies and the associated drive to weigh GPA more heavily is a major source of the current gender imbalance at top colleges. Males, on average, have lower GPAs than females, as AOs know well. |
There’s some truth in this. DD is college freshman - one of 12 females in STEM major. |