Men having vasectomies in their 20s and 30s?

[Anonymous]

I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

[Anonymous]

My husband had one in his mid 30's after we had our 2 kids.

[Anonymous]

If men want to get snipped it's fine. But if they want to get snipped to deny a partner the chance to have a child that's cruel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that the Supreme Court should make vasectomies illegal in all states, no exceptions for the health of the man.

I actually think that wives should be able to decide if and when their spouses get vasectomies. Most abortions are gotten by married women. I wonder how many of those women were married to idiots who were "too scared" to get a vasectomy. I think when men get married, they should forfeit their rights over their own body. Their wives, if they want them to, should be able to decide if he gets a vasectomy or not. If abortion can be illegal, then women, who bear 99% of the weight involved in pregnancy and childrearing, should be able to force their partners to have vasectomies.

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stupidity

Actually, pretty smart. Nobody can trap them into marriage and kids when they don't want. If they do get married their wife USUALLY will outlive them and take care of them in old age. They won't have the anxiety and cost of kids.

I love my kids, and wouldn't trade them in for anything ... but if I didn't have them? Well, as a woman I might be worried about old age but I'd be working hard to make sure I had enough money to care for myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The OP is asking about single guys. Married people who are done having kids don’t need to respond.

There are single men out there who know they don't ever want to pass on their genes. Vasectomy and done.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men want to get snipped it's fine. But if they want to get snipped to deny a partner the chance to have a child that's cruel.

Uhh no. Someone elses health decisions are not cruel to anyone else. Get your head out of your a$$.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

Interesting. But then again means men can't control their urges. If they found a partner to marry and not sleep around they wouldn't be so worried.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's a good way to avoid having a newborn with your younger second wife when you're 50.

I mean why not give the second wife the kid? I am the first wife.

I think the guy (my ex) is actually a catch. In about three years, he doesn’t need to spend a lot of time with our teens. I don’t think it is a crazy idea.

Women do most of the work in the early years anyway. And 50s is when the man’s business takes off and rakes in the revenue. Just saying that is what happens.

I don’t think I would care that much, as long as he is kept busy and keeps the checks coming.

Why did you guys get divorced?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

Interesting. But then again means men can't control their urges. If they found a partner to marry and not sleep around they wouldn't be so worried.

Huh? More than half of abortions are for married women. They accidentally get pregnant and don't want (another) child, can't afford another kid, were coerced into pregnancy by their husband, etc.

[Anonymous]

Smart move on their part. If you look at current marriage/divorce rates about half of marriages fail and 70-80% are initiated by women. Plus being on the hook for CS? No thanks.

Happiest couples I see are childless. They revel, spend time together and seem to have a lot of disposal income. And there is no messy custody battle to deal with if the relationship ends.

Marriage isn’t worth it for men anymore, there’s no tangible benefits. In most family court cases you’re in the hook for CS even if you mange ti get 50/50 custody. You’ll still have to go to court and brake that because most women don’t want to give up the extra money. Plus, having to deal with that drama for 18+ years? No thanks.

It’s more lucrative from a man’s perspective to focus on career early on, build wealth and skills, invest and live out the rest of your days peacefully and quietly. During the journey you can have company and fun but as long as you’re not married you’re safe and can retire early.

Kids are a financial burden, expensive, often used as pawns in divorce cases and can turn out to be greedy turds as they get to be teenagers. If I could go back and do it again there’s no way I’d do it, not a chance. I love my kids but if I couldn’t go back and time and meet my former self I’d say how much NOT worth it it really is. And since past me has no idea or way to relate I’d encourage him to just stay out of the marriage game and focus on building a career and money. Neither the “joys of parenthood” nor the “joys of marriage” are worth the mental and fiscal damage. When I was about to get married so many old guys in my unit telling me “don’t do it”, “think you don’t get sex now you just wait”, “go sit in divorce court for one day then come back and tell us what you think”, “want to know why I eat Ramen every day, ex took everything”. I should have listened but did not. At least the way it is now it seems like some guys have gotten wiser and decided to forgo marriage. They say about half of all women 18-45 will be childless and single the next few years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

This so written by some blue haired chubby liberal or a soy boy.

Why would I get one? A woman is just as accountable as me. She can have BC and we use protection . I’m not going to cut myself and prevent me from having kids because she wants to raw dog? Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

This so written by some blue haired chubby liberal or a soy boy.

Why would I get one? A woman is just as accountable as me. She can have BC and we use protection . I’m not going to cut myself and prevent me from having kids because she wants to raw dog? Lol

And for the women who cannot take birth control?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men want to get snipped it's fine. But if they want to get snipped to deny a partner the chance to have a child that's cruel.

Their body, their choice. No cruelty at all.

You sound selfish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a V last year at MedStar.

My surgeon is doing a study with a few academics about the Dobbs abortion decision and how its playing into decisions to get vasectomies. It was a pretty interesting survey they asked me to fill out as part of my follow-up.

As abortion gets outlawed across states we should expect vasectomies to increase. If they can ever get a male oral or injectable contraception to market, it will be a game changer in those states.

This so written by some blue haired chubby liberal or a soy boy.

Why would I get one? A woman is just as accountable as me. She can have BC and we use protection . I’m not going to cut myself and prevent me from having kids because she wants to raw dog? Lol

Bro, you're such an easy mark for getting baby trapped: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Baby%20Trap