Men having vasectomies in their 20s and 30s?
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Anonymous
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Why are men exercising control over their reproductive health?
Is this satire? |
Anonymous
+1. What is the issue here? |
Anonymous
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I got a vasectomy the day after my divorce. And it helped me be unattractive to childless women in their 30s but attractive to women in their late 20s and women over 40.
Every man who does not want children must get a vasectomy. There are women out there namely the ones in their late 30s whose window is closing and the worst thing for them would be to get pregnant by a guy who really doesn't want children. |
Anonymous
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I wish there was a better campaign to encourage men to have vasectomy. Especially today when women are louder and louder that they don't need men. This is the only way a man can be certain that he won't a child with someone who doesn't like him (but like the child that may follow sex) in the first place.
Men have so many ways to control their value, but for odd reasons women beat them to it. |
Anonymous
| Oh no, the incels found this thread. |
Anonymous
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Great!
Less chance of an unwanted pregnancy. |
Anonymous
+1. I got my gf in college pregnant and she initially wanted to abort using plan B but then changed her mind. When she described to me the mental anguish she had to go through it really changed my mind regarding pregnancy. I thought it was just popping a pill like Tylenol and call.it the day but for a lot of women they have to go through serious mental issues. Honestly if men know this fact they will be more sympathetic and do their part such as getting a vasectomy and/or accepting that they have no say in a pregnancy. She ultimately lost the baby a few weeks into the pregnancy because she had a medical issue she was unaware off. So guys get your vasectomy ONLY if you do not want a child. If you want a child don't do it |
Anonymous
| Because marriage is a losing proposition for men. Add kids to mix and women can take you to the cleaners even harder in divorce court. Family courts are overwhelmingly stacked against men. Can't get reamed by a family court if you can't have kids, lol. |
Anonymous
+100 |
Anonymous
Women now make as much as men, so they are subject to the same laws that once benefited them. 50/50 is the norm. And you don't pay child support if she makes more than you. |
Anonymous
You can take birth control. That's easier than cutting a part of your body. |
Anonymous
As someone who has both taken birth control and had a part of my body cut off, lol, no. |
Anonymous
| Friend of mine in his late 20s did it. He lives in a pretty liberal area and felt a lot of women in his dating pool wanted men to bear more of the burden in that area, so he did it in many ways to boost his attractiveness. I thought it was pretty short sighted as I think many men can mature and yearn for a family as they get older. He was filled with some rather intense regret and crying immediately after, so I kept those comments to myself. I don't know if it's good or bad, but it was tough watching him go through that. |
Anonymous
| When you know you don't want kids you know. Glad men are deciding more for themselves then being pressured into something they will regret later if they didn't want them to begin with. |
Anonymous
| Because access to abortions and north control is no longer guaranteed for many women in the US, and these men know they can be tracked down via dna if there is an accidental pregnancy. Why not have a vasectomy if you want to date around and then reverse it later? |