Men having vasectomies in their 20s and 30s?

[Anonymous]

On old saw more than a few guys who were in their early 30s and declared they had vasectomies. Some said they were OK with women having kids already but they would not. Wondering why no kids for sure at a young age?

[Anonymous]

Ask them.

[Anonymous]

If you met my husband's ex you'd understand why.

[Anonymous]

its not hard to understand. they may not want to pay child support for the rest of there lives.

[Anonymous]

Stupidity

[Anonymous]

I got mine in my late 20s, my wife doesn’t do well on birth control meds and didn’t like iuds. Condoms suck.

[Anonymous]

Chemical /hormonal birth control is difficult for a lot of women. More people should talk about it.

Non hormonal barriers for women are IUDs (copper) I wish we talked about this openly.

If one googles, one learns a lot

[Anonymous]

My husband did in his 30s. We were done. He knew he didn't want more kids with or without me. What's the question?

[Anonymous]

It's a good way to avoid having a newborn with your younger second wife when you're 50.

[Anonymous]

I mean, we talk about trusting women to decide if they want children or not. We can't do this for men, too?

[Anonymous]

The OP is asking about single guys. Married people who are done having kids don’t need to respond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On old saw more than a few guys who were in their early 30s and declared they had vasectomies. Some said they were OK with women having kids already but they would not. Wondering why no kids for sure at a young age?

Because this is what society tells them, have hookups and friends, not a commitment and responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I mean, we talk about trusting women to decide if they want children or not. We can't do this for men, too?

+1

[Anonymous]

Because they don't want kids and they want to ensure they don't have kids.

[Anonymous]

Because women's reproductive health is under attack