They literally cannot accept the idea that someone could possibly be thin without being anorexic, it's wild. |
I would bet my farm that your SIL was eating like that around you because you are so thin, and her normal diet includes much larger portions. |
I have no idea. Munching on all seasoned chips now after potato, cabbage and chicken lunch. |
I weigh 117. I eat whatever I want but only during mealtimes. No snacks (with occasional exceptions) and no processed junk, but alcohol and dessert in moderation (definitely not daily). I work out A LOT.
I am young so I am sure this will not last. |
Agree. My grandmother had the same build. |
I disagree with pp who said that this proves it is just genetic being slim.
I think the idea of eating as much as you want and whatever you want is very different for slim and overweight people. |
Np. I think that's probably true. I am 117, 5'3, and 44. I do not calorie count. I work out 45-60 mins/day and I am vegetarian. I unintentionally intermittent fast, but I do eat 3-4 meals usually between 12 and 8. I find I get nauseous if I eat in the morning and feel bloated if I eat late (I think the latter is because I go to bed by 9:30). We rarely eat out. After seeing this thread, out of curiosity I counted up my calories yesterday. I realized I only get 1400-1500 calories probably (total surprise to me) despite snacking a lot. It just turns out *what* I snack on is fairly low cal. Some of this might be genetic but also I wonder how much are just habits you learn growing up - which may work for or against you. My parents never ate breakfast or ate late at night also. They never ate out. Our dessert growing up was just fruit. |
I've never counted calories. Food rules: almost all food from scratch cooked at home, almost no snack/processed foods. |
I fluctuate between 120-125 and I am slightly above average height for a woman. I now weigh 120-125 because I stopped counting calories and I cook most food at home. I don’t exercise other than running errands on foot. Dieting and counting calories made me heavier. |
Calories are pointless. Your body doesn’t use them. Tree bark would have 4 calories per gram, but you won’t get energy out of eating it |
But so much fiber! |
I'm 125lb so heavier, but also 5'9, so maybe this counts? I think I can eat more though because of the height. Yesterday a had a sandwich with hummus, avocado, and tomatoes and lunchtime. It was really big so I still wasn't very hungry later, just had a glass of wine and a handful of peanuts. |
5'1, fluctuate between 115-120, 45 yo. 10ish over my "ideal" (to me) weight. I don't count calories at all, but work out 4-5 times a week, mixing peloton rides with 2-3 sessions of heavy weightlifting. I walk at least 10k steps every day (don't count that as a workout).
I pretty much eat whatever I want and feel that if I started calorie counting or restricting, it would stress me out. However, my personal tastes are for non caloric beverages, I love meat, veggies, and savory foods, don't have much of a sweet tooth or appetite for much more than coffee before noon. I could eat chips and dip or french fries for every meal, though. As I age I'm trying to focus on eating more protein and a wider range of fruits and veggies. I'm sure if I locked things down I could get back down to the 110 I was before I had kids, but I'm overall fine with my size and have good health markers for my age, so it's cool. |
I weight 116-117 at 5,2” (so not fat but not really thin) and only maintain this weight through significant portion control and food choices. I have coffee with cream in the am;eat a small to medium lunch (today was half turkey sandwich; yesterday a salad with chicken) and controlled portion of balanced home cooked dinner. I will have dessert or wine on occasion and eat out (usually a salad an app or half an entree) but do not snack and esp stuff like chips, cookies muffins fried foods. If I’m starving I will have a few almonds or cashews. I work out moderately and still eat less than my 83 yo sedentary mother who weighs about the same. It’s been like this my whole life, started dieting around age 10-11 (was a good dancer but too chubby). I’ve had metabolism tested and it’s quite low. I would probably be around 135 if I ate the recommended calorie intake )after I quit dance I got up to that and always felt uncomfortable in my body). I am not quite in the headspace to just allow myself to be average/heavier because honestly a lot of self worth is still tied up in being smaller. I wish I were naturally thin and didn’t think so much about what I can/won’t eat. |
I’m 43, 5 foot 1.5. I used to hover between 116-120, with 114 my happy weight. Now I am about 110-113. To cut, I eat around 1400. I work out most days (and have for about a decade) and recently upped my weightlifting days, from 2-3 to 4-5, doing splits rather than full body. I also run and do HIIT on other days. Lately I haven’t been tracking and I am staying around 110-112. I think it’s a combo of a deliberate cut/recomp, plus my metabolism going up when I stopped my cut but also gaining muscle. Don’t really know. Have never been fat but gotta say m body looks better now than in my 20’s and 30’s. My face, well, that’s another story ![]() |