Why do people overlook the advantages in dating if you go to a top school?

[Anonymous]

Forget personality, future spouse MUST have degree from ELITE college or university!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because of DEI you no longer have as large a pool at any institution elite or not. It is all part of the plan to dismantle the nuclear family.

Doesn’t dei help women have a greater selection of men with higher T to date at t20 school than they would otherwise?

That’s a positive no?

No. Most colleges enroll more women than men today. Because of DEI the pool of men who will actually be successful is diluted at t20 schools.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was at Harvard, 99% of the guys wanted to date someone who would be impressed that they went to Harvard, AKA not the women also going to Harvard.

OK... did those Harvard women end up marrying guys who went to Big State Universities? I bet they didn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sure. There is a great likelihood that they will come in the orbit of a future spouse in college.

But dating indiscriminately just because one is in college?? It’s a recipe to become a man whore or a cum bucket.

Good judgement is always required to find a quality spouse.

Do you hold young men to the same standards or are you just a misogynist?

Yup. Young men are held to same standards. Did I not mention man-whores??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because it is sexist and old fashioned.

Most of us expect our kids to have serious careers, and plenty of time to partner off after college.

And most intelligent men want their wives to have serious careers, too. It's not the 1960s anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it is sexist and old fashioned.

Most of us expect our kids to have serious careers, and plenty of time to partner off after college.

And most intelligent men want their wives to have serious careers, too. It's not the 1960s anymore.

No - otherwise hbs alumnae wouldn’t quit working at higher rates than lower tier b school alumnae

Intelligent men want intelligent wives

If they choose to have careers or not is only part of the package.

Ie going to hbs is the signal , not actually using the hbs degree for the next 20 years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it is sexist and old fashioned.

Most of us expect our kids to have serious careers, and plenty of time to partner off after college.

And most intelligent men want their wives to have serious careers, too. It's not the 1960s anymore.

No - otherwise hbs alumnae wouldn’t quit working at higher rates than lower tier b school alumnae

Intelligent men want intelligent wives

If they choose to have careers or not is only part of the package.

Ie going to hbs is the signal , not actually using the hbs degree for the next 20 years

+1

[Anonymous]

My son goes to a T20. At the end of his first year he started dating a student from a nearby school, not quite in the same class as his.Two years later, still together. My elitist husband is super annoyed, even though he married me, and graduated from an Ivy while I went GW. Go figure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I met my duel ivy degreed husband in a bar and my degree is from a regionally ranked school. I guess I got lucky.

And thank god you did after this gibberish response

I bet his family was thrilled he found you

[Anonymous]

Actually if you graduated from GW it was he who married up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it is sexist and old fashioned.

Most of us expect our kids to have serious careers, and plenty of time to partner off after college.

And most intelligent men want their wives to have serious careers, too. It's not the 1960s anymore.

No - otherwise hbs alumnae wouldn’t quit working at higher rates than lower tier b school alumnae

Intelligent men want intelligent wives

If they choose to have careers or not is only part of the package.

Ie going to hbs is the signal , not actually using the hbs degree for the next 20 years

Re: the bold above, source and actual stats, please. The interior of your own cobwebbed brain does not count as a "source."

[Anonymous]

Eh, new format glitch above so the bold didn't take.

PP (maybe the OP?) said "...otherwise hbs alumnae wouldn’t quit working at higher rates than lower tier b school alumnae."

Give the stats and the source that says "hbs alumnae quit working at higher rates" than alumnae of these "lower tier B schools" and what precisely is determined to be the latter type of school. Reputable source for an actually statistically valid survey, please. Making stuff up doesn't count, nor do statements like "everyone knows this is true!" etc. So: Where did you get this, and why don't you post numbers and their source?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was at Harvard, 99% of the guys wanted to date someone who would be impressed that they went to Harvard, AKA not the women also going to Harvard.

50% of Harvard grads marry each other. At Princeton it's even higher. There are stats and this is my social circle. (This is from 15 yrs ago)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i just returned from admitted student/parent day at an Ivy and even considering the selection bias of who attends those, there is clearly no shortage of elite, rich kids getting in these days.

They already revealed to a stranger like you their elite and rich status at an admitted student school visit? Or you have an insightful eye that can see through someone's eliteness and wealth from the first sight?

[Anonymous]

This thread reminds me of the Princeton alumnae who wrote an article telling girls to spend 75% of their time looking for a husband.

http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/headlines/2013/03/princeton-alumna-susan-patton-urges-women-to-snag-husband-on-campus-before-graduating