The "real dancers" you're comparing with dance/cross-train for many hours a day, five-six days a week. Of course they look different from amateurs, whether they go to ballet class or barre fit classes two to three hours per week. FWIW I've done plenty of adult ballet classes-- at the beginning/advanced beginner level, you spend a lot of time standing around waiting in line or listening to instructions, so it never felt like a full hour's worth of exercise. I love ballet, but at my level of proficiency and amount of free time to devote to exercise, it makes more sense to get my ballet-adjacent fix in a barre class. |
I actually think skinny fat is a misnomer. If someone is truly thin, by definition they have almost no body fat, even if they don’t have a lot of muscles. Of course someone can be thin and not fit - but there certainly isn’t a lot of body fat involved. |
I will never go to a barre class again because the women are so insufferable. Total middle school vibe, full of envy and judgment. I happen to be very thin and tall, and got such an angry judgmental vibe from some women there. So I will never go back to these lame creatures. |
girl what lmao. at my barre class we don’t even speak. everyone shuffles in at 6 am and does the workout and leaves. you’re focused on the wrong thing if you spent the whole time looking at them to perceive judgment. They were probably bracing their core and tucking their hips and doing the workout . You ain’t that special! |
Seriously! What are these judgy exercise classes? I've been to all kinds of classes at all kinds of gyms and studios and have never encountered this attitude. People are mostly just focused on themselves, or if not are polite. |
You haven’t been there, so how would you know? Just like I haven’t been to all barre classes in the US, you haven’t been to this one. One was enough for me to try, but for you to act like you know what my experience was is a bit preposterous. |
Hahaha major +1. Sounds like you’re in your own head, no one else there cares about you I promise |
Funny that responses like this can always be expected. You have no clue at all what other people experience and are just looking to put someone in her place. It’s very transparent. When I read a response like yours, I picture a sad, lonely and rejected person. There are so many of you in the “friendship” posts. With these friendship skills, you won’t succeed in your personal relationships. |
Something is off about you but ok |
Perhaps they look different because they are real dancers? |
Your description is pretty accurate. I am in the third group ![]() |
I love Hannah Corbin's barre classes on Peloton. I like her better than anyone I've had in a studio. Life is too chaotic right now for me to regularly make it into a studio, but I do her workouts 6 days (sometimes only 10-20 minute class, sometimes a 60 minute class after I run on the treadmill). The fact that you can customize it to your schedule, you don't have to waste time commuting and you don't have to do it in front of other people is perfect for me. |
Bunch of haters with these catty comments. I’m 57 years old, and I walk a lot, do barre 5x a week as well as a mix of hiit and heavy lifting. Barre is no joke. If you’re in shape and really pushing yourself in class you’ll feel it. I go to barre right after work and on the weekends, it’s a great stress reliever and add to the six days a week that I do one of the aforementioned exercises for a half an hour daily. Get over yourself and figure out what works for you. |
Skinny fat is TOFI: thin on the outside, fat on the inside. In other words, fat around the organs where it does the most damage. I have no idea and no dog in the fight if barre women are skinny fat or ripped as I have never been to a class - I am actual obese and would not want to expose myself to still more quiet but perceptible judgment - but skinny fat is real. |
I too hate the term skinny fat but I think when people use it they mean it as “thin but has zero muscle definition.” When we call someone thin, we usually mean “thin and looks toned.” |