As an AAP parent that makes me sad. We actually decided to have our kid stick to her local school Vs center. She’s full on level IV and could have gone to a center. A parent (who also happens to be a FCPS teacher) told me that our school could not meet the needs of intelligent kids which is why she sent her DC to the center down the street (after getting said child on appeal). So even within AAP you find there are parents who are competitive. Those same parents will eventually be talking about IOWA tests, then TJ or GPA, then college acceptances. I want my kids to do well but I’m not joining the crazies. |
| It’s not right people look down on others because they’re non AAP, either poor or rich, or have disabilities, or because of their race (usually if they are Asian/Hispanic/Black), but it’s more from the family especially the parents. A lot of people on this forum attacking others for whatever reasons because they think life’s not fair to them and their kids, but are they being fair to other when they say hateful words toward certain race or because some have better financial status so they must be cheating? |
I don't know about letting them fail, but they do get an option to switch early on in the year. You just have to accept a possible schedule change to balance out the class sizes. |
That's the kicker and what infuriated me. Not all schools do LLIV, mine was center or nothing. And it hurt my child to sit on the bus at the end of second grade and be told by his buddy that he wished my kid was smarter so they could still ride the bus together. Why do some kids have to go through that while others don't??? Just pick one model FCPS...center or LLIV and stick with it. |
They absolutely did at my ES. I remember distinctly talking to some of the "in" PTA mom types. One conversation specifically blew my mind, where a few of them were ticking of their list as to who they wanted for teachers next year for their kids and they were giving to to [principal's FIRST name] next week. They did. And they got what they asked for. |
This is how my child's school handles advanced math AND how it was done when I was in ES 30+ years ago. |
I'm curious about if you ever asked for anything? I'm not a PTA mom, my kid is below average, and I get the teachers for my kid that I ask for because I am vocal about my child's needs. I bet the PTA moms are, too. Are you?? |
Well they are at our center. Each grade has 3, sometimes 4 AAP classes and fewer Gen Ed. It's absurd. |
Yep. Absolutely this. Plenty of kids are advanced in one area but not in the other. And that includes AAP kids. |
Our center school has 4-5 AAP classes and 2 Gen Ed. |
Nope. I had one conversation -one- with the principal over placement one year but ultimately deferred to where they put DC. There were things I wanted for DC that the ES did give (like advance math tracking, certain teachers, etc.) but I never asked for them (even though I wanted to). |
What about SS/Science that are very reading heavy? |
No one cares about S/SS. Fwiw, splitting kids up like this wouldn't work at our center school - by 6th grade, the core subjects are combined and not separate. |
x1 million Cluster for ES and MS |
Parents need to advocate for their kids. In my experience, the school does what it can to accommodate requests because it reduces parent complaints and makes their lives easier. |