Jealous SIL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you know it bothers your SIL and therefore hurts your brother why would you post on FB? They have no rights to tell you to stop being friends with the ex, but you show that you clearly don’t care about their feelings if you post pictures in FB. I would never do that unless I am trying to hurt SIL…

I can kind of understand your point here…. But why is SIL ‘hate following’ the ex. She must be super immature if this is how she spends her time.

Brother should be asking wife to reconsider who she follows, if she’s so sensitive to this relationship.

NP.

I agree. The SIL sounds immature and insecure. Why is she following her husband's ex on social media? Does SIL not have any friends of her own?
OP, how old is your SIL?

[Anonymous]

Just tell the ex gf to stop posting pics with you on IG. This is the solution and you know it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it comes down to this simple point- You are not nice and/or appear to have very little interest in your SIL but maintain what seems to be a very delightful one with the Ex. It stings. If you don't want to discontinue the relationship with the Ex, try to at least appear to attempt to make your chilly relationship with your SIL a little warmer.

Look, we have a cordial (or so I thought) relationship with SIL. We are not mean to each other, we don't hang out with each other, it's always been like that. When we meet at family functions, there is little for us to talk about other than the kids and THAT'S OK. Do I really have to pick and choose friends at my age?

You are missing the point. Nobody, not even SIL apparently, is asking that you be closer or best friends. What people are pointing out is that you have obvious disdain for her and think you are better than her. That was evident from your first post. It almost certainly comes through to SIL on those occasions that you do interact. Be nicer, and maybe reflect on why you think you are better than others.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just tell the ex gf to stop posting pics with you on IG. This is the solution and you know it.

Right? It seems so obvious. "Hey friend, can you just not post pics of us together? My SIL sees them and has a fit. I know it's stupid, but just don't to keep the peace with my brother." Why can't you just do that OP? You can see her all you like and make fun of her with your friend, nobody is trying to take that away from you.

[Anonymous]

You can stop “spoiling” your brother’s kids now. No one appreciates a two-faced giver.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just tell the ex gf to stop posting pics with you on IG. This is the solution and you know it.

Right? It seems so obvious. "Hey friend, can you just not post pics of us together? My SIL sees them and has a fit. I know it's stupid, but just don't to keep the peace with my brother." Why can't you just do that OP? You can see her all you like and make fun of her with your friend, nobody is trying to take that away from you.

We all know you talk crap about your SIL to his ex. You can’t help yourself.