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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.
If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.
When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better
Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.
There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone