DH is never jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife dated one of my friends before we got together, and I dated one of her roommates. Both of them were at our wedding and we went to their respective weddings.. What’s the big deal?

You’re way too mature in your thinking to be on this thread.

I mean, I know my wife banged my friend back when they dated. Does that mean I need to be hostile to him and cut off our friendship? Or somehow spend effort on proving I’m the dominant male whenever he’s around my wife? Bizarre.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Two pages in, and I really wonder about OP. Buying a drink for the ex DH is perfectly fine. Beyond that it sounds like she tries to goad him into jealousy and he's onto her games.

If he's narcissistic then surely there are other areas where it is a problem which raises the question for me of why OP focuses on his lack of showing jealousy.

Why do you think that?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

He doesn't care about your or has extremely low testosterone and is beta. Testosterone rates have plunged 30% in the past couple decades, so many men are basically not masculine whatsoever nowadays

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Wanting to avoid fights doesn't make you beta, it makes you smart. I'll fight to the death to defend my life or that of a loved one but I'm not going to risk a criminal charge or lawsuit because some loser hit on my wife. The more you have to lose, the less you want to risk it by getting in to random street brawls. It's usually the guys who have nothing going for them who are quick to throw punches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Wanting to avoid fights doesn't make you beta, it makes you smart. I'll fight to the death to defend my life or that of a loved one but I'm not going to risk a criminal charge or lawsuit because some loser hit on my wife. The more you have to lose, the less you want to risk it by getting in to random street brawls. It's usually the guys who have nothing going for them who are quick to throw punches.

Spoken like a true low testosterone loser. When's the last time you got your T tested?

[Anonymous]

Who the hell resurrected this dumpster fire of a thread and why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Wanting to avoid fights doesn't make you beta, it makes you smart. I'll fight to the death to defend my life or that of a loved one but I'm not going to risk a criminal charge or lawsuit because some loser hit on my wife. The more you have to lose, the less you want to risk it by getting in to random street brawls. It's usually the guys who have nothing going for them who are quick to throw punches.

Spoken like a true low testosterone loser. When's the last time you got your T tested?

If you worry about things as meaningless as your wife getting a drink bought for her buy her ex, or any other guy for that matter, you are soft and in a weak relationship. If your wife is going to cheat, she is going to cheat. Doesn't really matter if someone buys her a drink or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Wanting to avoid fights doesn't make you beta, it makes you smart. I'll fight to the death to defend my life or that of a loved one but I'm not going to risk a criminal charge or lawsuit because some loser hit on my wife. The more you have to lose, the less you want to risk it by getting in to random street brawls. It's usually the guys who have nothing going for them who are quick to throw punches.

Spoken like a true low testosterone loser. When's the last time you got your T tested?

You sound really trashy. Like the kind of person that gets in fights with other parents at a little league game

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So we want our men to be jealous? Interesting..

Mine is this way too, overconfident bc I won't cheat or flirt with other men. It does annoy me too, like you aren't a little jealous? It's almost like some osrt of weird insult that he doesn't feel pangs of something while i am somewhat jealous and possessive at times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So we want our men to be jealous? Interesting..

Mine is this way too, overconfident bc I won't cheat or flirt with other men. It does annoy me too, like you aren't a little jealous? It's almost like some osrt of weird insult that he doesn't feel pangs of something while i am somewhat jealous and possessive at times.

so you are insecure and your DH is not.

maybe explore why does that make you angry/annoyed and figure out how to deal with it.

[Anonymous]

why be jealous? you go home with him and live with him, you have some vision of a movie in your mind of your husband having to fight for you each and everyday.

i know a good therapist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Lol
No. He has worked put his whole life. He has solid muscles and he is 6 ft 3in. He is not wimpy, has a black belt in Aikido. Active, fit.

But we didnt just ask about the physical....

No. He doesn't usually care about appricak from others especially people he barely knows. He is a go getter. I would not call him beta at all. He is driven. I think he is just super confident

I dont know, I'm getting beta vibes tbh. You may be wanting to see him with rose colored glasses since he's your husband. But this is definitely beta behavior. Sorry OP, it just is. I think you want him to be something he's not and never can be

As a man, you sound beta. Insecurity is an an extremely weak trait. Get therapy

[Anonymous]

Stop this beta alpfa crap

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Buying an ex, especially in this scenario, is big time alpha vibes. Big time.