DH is never jealous.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

[Anonymous]

Same with my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Lol
No. He has worked put his whole life. He has solid muscles and he is 6 ft 3in. He is not wimpy, has a black belt in Aikido. Active, fit.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I think he just sort of has that attitude of the other guy wants what DH has so why get jealous.

It does annoy me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Lol
No. He has worked put his whole life. He has solid muscles and he is 6 ft 3in. He is not wimpy, has a black belt in Aikido. Active, fit.

But we didnt just ask about the physical....

[Anonymous]

I am same as your husband. I am 6'4", 235lb and former college hockey player.

I am just not sexually insecure and not really sexually jealous either. I suppose it possible my wife could cheat but I wouldn't take it personally. I am good in bed and have no shortage of women I could revenge with

[Anonymous]

I dont know what Akido is but I do know a lot of nerdy men do those kinds of martial arts. If he got teased in high school or never developed healthy relationships with other men he may have problems with relating to men and creating healthy boundaries and asserting himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am same as your husband. I am 6'4", 235lb and former college hockey player.

I am just not sexually insecure and not really sexually jealous either. I suppose it possible my wife could cheat but I wouldn't take it personally. I am good in bed and have no shortage of women I could revenge with

Are you the cuck guy from another thread? You may be good in bed but plenty of other men are good in bed too 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Lol
No. He has worked put his whole life. He has solid muscles and he is 6 ft 3in. He is not wimpy, has a black belt in Aikido. Active, fit.

But we didnt just ask about the physical....

No. He doesn't usually care about appricak from others especially people he barely knows. He is a go getter. I would not call him beta at all. He is driven. I think he is just super confident

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

Sounds like he's a beta male. Is he physically weak? Could most men beat him in a fight? Is he weak, small, short, shrimpy, or overweight?

Is he mentally/emotionally beta? Does he desperately seek out the approval of other men?

I think that's probably what it is. He knows he'll lose in a fight and he values the approval of other dudes over his woman. Textbook beta

Lol
No. He has worked put his whole life. He has solid muscles and he is 6 ft 3in. He is not wimpy, has a black belt in Aikido. Active, fit.

But we didnt just ask about the physical....

No. He doesn't usually care about appricak from others especially people he barely knows. He is a go getter. I would not call him beta at all. He is driven. I think he is just super confident

I dont know, I'm getting beta vibes tbh. You may be wanting to see him with rose colored glasses since he's your husband. But this is definitely beta behavior. Sorry OP, it just is. I think you want him to be something he's not and never can be

[Anonymous]

*approval

[Anonymous]

He sounds insecure - he is a loser. Dump him.

[Anonymous]

OP here
I think he is overconfident. Like he would never think I would cheat or flirt with another man so he is not worried.

Buying my ex a drink...we had mutual friends and bumped into them a bar. Again, I think he was floating that he had me.

[Anonymous]

My husband has never been jealous from what I can tell. A couple of years ago a college BF was in town and invited me and my husband for a drink and my husband told me to go alone and have fun. He has reason to be secure with our relationship so jealousy is just not an issue for either of us.