DH is never jealous.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Tall guys can still be insecure. He sounds like he has trauma from childhood. Probably has a fear that these men would beat the S out of him


Of course tall guys can be insecure. Who said they couldn't?

He thinks he can beat up most people. Even professional fighters. That's what I dont get. He is strong but thinks he is way stronger than he is.


He may act like that, but I doubt he feels that way. And if youve been married 25 years, he's really old and couldnt beat anyone in a fight. I'm sure he knows it. He's too old to compete
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Tall guys can still be insecure. He sounds like he has trauma from childhood. Probably has a fear that these men would beat the S out of him


Of course tall guys can be insecure. Who said they couldn't?

He thinks he can beat up most people. Even professional fighters. That's what I dont get. He is strong but thinks he is way stronger than he is.


He may act like that, but I doubt he feels that way. And if youve been married 25 years, he's really old and couldnt beat anyone in a fight. I'm sure he knows it. He's too old to compete

He just turned 50. Many men are very fit at that age. He can lift more than people half his age.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Tall guys can still be insecure. He sounds like he has trauma from childhood. Probably has a fear that these men would beat the S out of him


Of course tall guys can be insecure. Who said they couldn't?

He thinks he can beat up most people. Even professional fighters. That's what I dont get. He is strong but thinks he is way stronger than he is.


He may act like that, but I doubt he feels that way. And if youve been married 25 years, he's really old and couldnt beat anyone in a fight. I'm sure he knows it. He's too old to compete

He just turned 50. Many men are very fit at that age. He can lift more than people half his age.


Not against a fit young man, that's for sure.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Tall guys can still be insecure. He sounds like he has trauma from childhood. Probably has a fear that these men would beat the S out of him


Of course tall guys can be insecure. Who said they couldn't?

He thinks he can beat up most people. Even professional fighters. That's what I dont get. He is strong but thinks he is way stronger than he is.


He may act like that, but I doubt he feels that way. And if youve been married 25 years, he's really old and couldnt beat anyone in a fight. I'm sure he knows it. He's too old to compete

He just turned 50. Many men are very fit at that age. He can lift more than people half his age.


Not against a fit young man, that's for sure.


Sorry you are married to a fattie.
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Anonymous wrote:I am same as your husband. I am 6'4", 235lb and former college hockey player.

I am just not sexually insecure and not really sexually jealous either. I suppose it possible my wife could cheat but I wouldn't take it personally. I am good in bed and have no shortage of women I could revenge with


Are you the cuck guy from another thread? You may be good in bed but plenty of other men are good in bed too 🤷🏼‍♀️


No that's not me

I am very confident, I think the men who throw around the cuck insult are the ones who are insecure.

Perhaps because I am mid 40s? When I was younger I was.mote jealous..Now I am rich and conventionally attractive, so I would clean up if I was single again.

It's the insecure betas who feel the need to control their wives.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Tall guys can still be insecure. He sounds like he has trauma from childhood. Probably has a fear that these men would beat the S out of him


Of course tall guys can be insecure. Who said they couldn't?

He thinks he can beat up most people. Even professional fighters. That's what I dont get. He is strong but thinks he is way stronger than he is.


He may act like that, but I doubt he feels that way. And if youve been married 25 years, he's really old and couldnt beat anyone in a fight. I'm sure he knows it. He's too old to compete

He just turned 50. Many men are very fit at that age. He can lift more than people half his age.


Not against a fit young man, that's for sure.


Sorry you are married to a fattie.


LOL what? Sorry youre married to an old man cuck loser. How sad.
Anonymous
Pretty sure John Cena could beat the crap out of guys half his age.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am same as your husband. I am 6'4", 235lb and former college hockey player.

I am just not sexually insecure and not really sexually jealous either. I suppose it possible my wife could cheat but I wouldn't take it personally. I am good in bed and have no shortage of women I could revenge with


Are you the cuck guy from another thread? You may be good in bed but plenty of other men are good in bed too 🤷🏼‍♀️


No that's not me

I am very confident, I think the men who throw around the cuck insult are the ones who are insecure.

Perhaps because I am mid 40s? When I was younger I was.mote jealous..Now I am rich and conventionally attractive, so I would clean up if I was single again.

It's the insecure betas who feel the need to control their wives.


I dont think you would. You keep saying that, but most women care about looks, youth, and energy. You have a very insecure, feminine, beta type energy, so I doubt anyone would want you. You could try Grindr though, maybe you would have more success there. Good luck either way
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Anonymous wrote:Pretty sure John Cena could beat the crap out of guys half his age.


Not against a young ripped guy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better


Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone


Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.
Anonymous
Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.


+1

Suddenly all the wives that dont want to have sex makes sense. These guys seem so lame and repulsively pathetic
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

No kidding! Kind of shocking to me actually
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.


No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing


You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.
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