DH is never jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

What do you mean?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.

I don't know you and you don't know me, and I am only saying this to help OP and give her some perspective so she can get insight.

Two things I am absolutely confident about: I have slept with way, way more women than you. That doesn't make me better or worse than you or other men but it defeats your idiotic theory of feminine energy. 2) you are the same poster replying to yourself and ruining an interesting thread where women actually want insight as to why their husbands don't seem to get jealous.

It's not a rare trait, and in fact among my friends who are attractive and super successful it's more of the norm. But I guess we are all beta cuck Democrat closet gays or whatever is the latest political insult

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

+1

Suddenly all the wives that dont want to have sex makes sense. These guys seem so lame and repulsively pathetic

Which side are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

+1

Suddenly all the wives that dont want to have sex makes sense. These guys seem so lame and repulsively pathetic

Which side are you talking about?

The cuck guys

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.

I don't know you and you don't know me, and I am only saying this to help OP and give her some perspective so she can get insight.

Two things I am absolutely confident about: I have slept with way, way more women than you. That doesn't make me better or worse than you or other men but it defeats your idiotic theory of feminine energy. 2) you are the same poster replying to yourself and ruining an interesting thread where women actually want insight as to why their husbands don't seem to get jealous.

It's not a rare trait, and in fact among my friends who are attractive and super successful it's more of the norm. But I guess we are all beta cuck Democrat closet gays or whatever is the latest political insult

1) I doubt it
2) I think the same of you.

I think you seem like a very beta guy insecure because you realize how much people in general look down on men like you and how much young men make fun of your type. And it bothers you, because youre insecure all the way around. The same impulse of feeling "less than" that makes you buy a drink for a man who's f**ed the s*** out of your wife, or make multiple threads/posts where you talk about how "cool" you feel with other men sleeping with your own wife, is the same impulse that makes you feel enraged by how many people look down on you for these tendencies.

Aka, low self esteem. Sucks to suck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Loser alert. you've probably been cheated on multiple times. What a pathetic joke of a person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Plus one. I think the men who are insecure are the ones who weren't terribly sexually successful before marriage. The same ones who insult 30 year old single women for passing over nice guys like them.

[Anonymous]

How many books/movies have been made about this exact phenomenon? The older, complacent husband/boyfriend, who thought his wealth/former physical attractiveness would inoculate him from other men. Who arrogantly refused to think about his wife's perspective or the appeal of other men. And who's wife left him as a result. Since Leo Tolstoy's time, at the bare minimum.

Tale as old as time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

My husband would politely/icily greet the guy and move on. Making it clear that he was the shot caller in the situation. Definitely not invite him for a drink Very simple. If you know how to handle yourself, it's not an issue. But a lot of men have social issues, so it doesnt surprise me this stymies them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Loser alert. you've probably been cheated on multiple times. What a pathetic joke of a person.

Incel alert. Ask a woman if she’d rather have her husband greet an ex with a handshake and a hello or run off huffy and mad like a little boy? My confidence clearly annoys you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Loser alert. you've probably been cheated on multiple times. What a pathetic joke of a person.

Incel alert. Ask a woman if she’d rather have her husband greet an ex with a handshake and a hello or run off huffy and mad like a little boy? My confidence clearly annoys you.

Delusional alert. Why are these the only options? It's called handling things like a man. A firm handshake and icing the guy out is the masculine thing. Buying someone a drink like a little boy trying to curry favor is truly pathetic and a turn off.