I agree with much of this. But we have to be careful to understand that "mouthing off" to an officer (not at all saying that happened here) is not a "right." |
| But it's not illegal and doing it does not magically confer to the cop the right to manhandle and throw down the smartass!!!! |
What was insulting to previous posters was your entire first paragraph:
You seem to be saying that it is reasonable and understandable to disinvite someone based on her color because if she became a victim of real or imagined mistreatment, she would be apt to sue you. You are viewing black children as little more than potential legal liabilities. You also appear to suggest that because the mom in this instance is a person of reasonable means, she likely has legal help lined up to pursue "alleged" mistreatment. So, while the children are potential liabilities, the parents are potential legal threats. Do you believe that the previous poster would not find such suggestions insulting? Your second paragraph discusses the impact of racism:
According to you, you have never heard of a claim of racism by an employee that was substantiated, suggesting that all such claims are frivolous. Moreover, you are left to "deal with the fallout" of these frivolous allegations. You conclude that white males are seen as the "root of all evil" and are not given fair defenses when facing racial allegations. So, the impact of racism, as you see it, is false accusations, more work for you, and a host of wrongly-convicted white males. Though, in your defense, you might not consider this to be the "impact of racism" because you don't seem to acknowledge the existence of racism in these instances because it is all fabricated. When your white male son is routinely followed through department stores, is reported to the police because he is walking down the street, can't catch a taxi cab, is shot on sight while holding a toy gun, or is disinvited from a swimming party because of his race, then maybe we can discuss how society views white males. |
I honestly don't understand why either of the adults feel the situation in TX would even be a concern of anyone in McLean. |
It only matters to one of the adults because her daughter was disinvited from a party because of it. |
And I would love anyone on here who cannot see this point, to have such a mob scene descend on your HOA private pool or swim club-I think your tunes would change... |
+1 pp That cop's life is ruined - and possibly in danger - and those teenwalk away feeling like they won a gold medal, rather than be held accountable for their bad behavior. Way to empower idiocy y'all |
Indeed it has. White people sniveling apologies about something they didn't even do? And speaking for 'all whites'? Please! |
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The officer had no cause to pull anyone's hair or draw his weapon.
This is not complicated. |
And because the disinvitation was almost certainly in response to white parents at the Langley pool discussing how fortunate they are that black kids do not go there. |
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I really appreciate the police officer and the chief of police stating unequivocally that the police officer's actions were wrong. I also appreciate the police officer apologizing.
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I am the pp who defended the offcer's actions - reason being is partially exactly what you point out. Second reason is residents if the neighborhood speaking out about the trouble they'd been having recently with similar incidents. I also am hearing that the two previous calls the officer had just responded to were suicides. That means he kinda wasn't having a really good day. And now his name is brandished across the papers and Sharpton and the New Black Panthers are involved. Completely sick |
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I have not read this whole thread and don’t intend to.
I am so sick of incidences like this becoming national. There are so many more important issues in the world. Why focus on something like this that is really a more local issue? (This is a rhetorical question - I know WHY it is being done.) |
I think the AA woman should have just showed up as planned. It was made into a huge deal, for what? I'm sure nothing would have come of it and the kids would be better off. the AA mom has her own bias, assuming McLean residents are racist. |
Better question - why the organized activists? You answer lies there |