NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

“DC Area Mom Brutally Murdered; Serial Poster of Nasty Comments on DCUM, Public Concludes Murder Was Justified”

This sums it up perfectly.

Or, a more accurate option, "DC area mom runs in the middle of the beltway for two hours. Everyone SHOCKED when she is hit by a car."

Are people who have affairs usually murdered by their affair partners?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

“DC Area Mom Brutally Murdered; Serial Poster of Nasty Comments on DCUM, Public Concludes Murder Was Justified”

This sums it up perfectly.

Or, a more accurate option, "DC area mom runs in the middle of the beltway for two hours. Everyone SHOCKED when she is hit by a car."

Are people who have affairs usually murdered by their affair partners?

Well, it obviously happens. See recent story about Queens mom killed by her handyman.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

At FIFTY-ONE years old.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

So not true abs you know it. If his crazy scorned AP (fatal attraction) came after his innocent wife and kids people definitely would say he’s a sleaze dirtball. Just like John Edwards, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

“DC Area Mom Brutally Murdered; Serial Poster of Nasty Comments on DCUM, Public Concludes Murder Was Justified”

This sums it up perfectly.

Or, a more accurate option, "DC area mom runs in the middle of the beltway for two hours. Everyone SHOCKED when she is hit by a car."

Are people who have affairs usually murdered by their affair partners?

Sometimes. And sometimes their innocent spouses are out of jealousy or for insurance $.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

“DC Area Mom Brutally Murdered; Serial Poster of Nasty Comments on DCUM, Public Concludes Murder Was Justified”

This sums it up perfectly.

Or, a more accurate option, "DC area mom runs in the middle of the beltway for two hours. Everyone SHOCKED when she is hit by a car."

Are people who have affairs usually murdered by their affair partners?

Well, it obviously happens. See recent story about Queens mom killed by her handyman.

Are they *very frequently murdered by their affair partners to the point that it would not be considered shocking*?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

Her 13-year old son most of all. She almost got him killed too that night.

Is that like when women “get themselves pregnant”? Surely you mean that the guy who decided to brutally murder a woman could have decided to brutally murder a child as well?

Don’t be an idiot. She let this guy into the family home at 1am. A man she had been cheating on the kid’s dad with for 2 years and new he had a temper and had broken up with him on and off as he grew increasingly angry. Because she didn’t want to get caught she didn’t take appropriate safety precautions, like getting a restraining order, etc. if the kid walked downstairs that night, he would have been killed.

I’m sure she let him inside instead of calling the cops so the neighbors wouldn’t hear.

If he was banging on the door—yes. She wouldn’t want him waking up kid/neighbors and somebody calling the cops so that everyone would discover her affair. She made the fatal calculation that she could diffuse the situation herself, not really thinking of the danger for herself or kid. But since every single barista, person in town knew he was a psycho creep not sure how she missed that. I guess she got in over her head.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

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I live in a neighborhood very much like Forest Hills and no women walk home alone after midnight. They just don’t. Double standard all you will, but given the current increase in crime everywhere it’s unsafe. Add in that she knew this guy was crazy angry jealous, it was even more unsafe.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

There is a higher statistical chance if you are f@cking someone else’s spouse and your spouse or your affair partner’s spouse finds out.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Well sure. But that’s not the point under contention.

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I wonder if it is possible that she was not having an affair. Just because he said does not make it so. Was it possible she was friends with him and flirted and he became obsessed? Who cares about her drinks at a bar. I read that she would eat and have one drink by herself. That doesn’t seem like she was wild. I wonder if it is a cultural thing. We Americans always have to eat with someone and perhaps she didn’t feel that way. The slut shaming is awful.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if it is possible that she was not having an affair. Just because he said does not make it so. Was it possible she was friends with him and flirted and he became obsessed? Who cares about her drinks at a bar. I read that she would eat and have one drink by herself. That doesn’t seem like she was wild. I wonder if it is a cultural thing. We Americans always have to eat with someone and perhaps she didn’t feel that way. The slut shaming is awful.

Not at all. They gave all the electronic communications. It was sexual.