Getting out of the friend zone and into...

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.
Anonymous
I have female friends but generally they cannot match my male friends in terms of sense of humor. The women aren't funny meme is kind of true. Women are better than men on other things but being funny ain't one.

Being good platonic friends is a lot about sense of humor, easy banter, and outlook.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.
Anonymous
I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?


Poor reading comprehension right there, or a lefty troll.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.

You a rapist too? Rapists would be the first ones to defend other rapists. The Brock Turners of the world are so disgusting.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

You need to learn what consent is. How many other women have you raped?


Poor reading comprehension right there, or a lefty troll.

So anyone who abhors rape is a liberal? What does that say about people who condone and perform rape? All republicans? Probably not wrong honestly.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.

You a rapist too? Rapists would be the first ones to defend other rapists. The Brock Turners of the world are so disgusting.


Your reading comprehension is as poor as your lefty friend.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.


This isn’t a story that paints you a good or neutral light.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I didn't rape anybody. Saying that is borderline nuts. The woman said she didn't want to drive home. That doesn't mean she couldn't consent to sex. I offered the couch. She asked to sleep in my bed and then told me she wanted to have sex. And in the morning she wanted to do it again. And when she saw me a few weeks later she said she wanted to do it again. A year later, when she got a serious BF, she said she wanted to introduce me and said she had told him about our night together.

Lots of people drink before consensual sex

Accusing me of rape in that totally ordinary situation is insulting to me but it's also is bad for actual victims of rape. People shouldn't throw around accusations like that.

That’s… literally what it means. What is wrong with you? Instead of calling other people nuts, maybe do some introspection and figure out why you’re bragging about having non-consensual sex with someone you considered a friend. You seem to be reacting poorly to being called a rapist, but please consider the content of the message instead of the knee jerk “no I’m not” response. No one likes to hear negative things about themselves, but that’s what you did. By your own words. Good luck.
Anonymous
Brock Turner raped an unconscious person.

OP had sex with someone who said she wanted to have sex.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.


Yes, obviously. But the harpies on this threat will twist the facts to fit their desired narrative ("men are trash!" "men are rapists")
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once friend zoned and was friend zoned by a woman but we enjoyed spending time together. One time she came over to watch a movie and she drank too much. She said she couldn't drive home safely. She also started making sexual comments that weren't subtle at all.

Since she was drunk said she could sleep on the couch. She ended up sleeping with me in my bed. She turned out to be one of the most talented lovers I've ever known. The sex was amazing. We did it once around midnight and again after the sun came up in the morning.

But here's the strange thing. I still wasn't very attracted to her. We still saw each other every couple of months for a while but we never did it again. Eventually we each found other people.

I don't understand how I could not be attracted to a woman who I slept with twice in 8 hours, but I wasn't. She said she wanted to do it again but didn't seem upset when I said no. Back to friend zone. She's a nice person and not ugly at all. Even pretty.

She couldn’t consent. You raped your friend.

These men just keep outing themselves. Jesus Christ what is wrong with men.


DP. I was surprised he decided to confess that.

Rapists have no shame I guess.


BS. Just because she had too much to drink to be able to drive home doesn’t mean she didn’t know exactly what was going on. If you read closer, SHE was the one making sexual comments. She knew exactly what she was doing.


Yes, obviously. But the harpies on this threat will twist the facts to fit their desired narrative ("men are trash!" "men are rapists")

Bro, having sex with someone who cannot consent is the definition of rape. You don’t need to be a harpy to see that as hugely problematic :/ . You are giving men a bad name acting like this.
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