Online dating/men height

[Anonymous]

I’d say they lie about it 80% of the time. I’m 5’10 (woman) and I’ve never had a guy show up on a date who lied. But scores and scores posing as 5’10 hoping I think that a 5’1 woman won’t notice the difference.

[Anonymous]

Women are lying about EVERYTHING in their profiles.

[Anonymous]

Meet people in real life, losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meet people in real life, losers.

I didn't lie about anything in my profile. In fact I'm in better shape than I am in my pics.
Also I met a nice man online who didn't lie about his stats. We are out there. Real-life meeting is challenging, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meet people in real life, losers.

This person got a spouse so there is hope for all you singles out there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Meet people in real life, losers.

This person got a spouse so there is hope for all you singles out there.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5'11" woman happily married for 40 years to a 5'8" man. Just don't come back and complain that there aren't any good men out there. You're cutting out a big death of your dating pool.

Everyone chooses what they compromise on, you compromised on height, great for you, not everyone has to do that to be happy

I didn't compromise. I value character, sense of humor, intelligence and someone that treats me as an equal. Height would be waaay down on my list.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:5'11" woman happily married for 40 years to a 5'8" man. Just don't come back and complain that there aren't any good men out there. You're cutting out a big death of your dating pool.

Good for you. I am divorced. I settled when I got married (not in height but in other ways). Not doing it again. I like men 6 feet or taller. I am not settling again. I am 5 feet 7. I have no interest in men who are not meeting my preference. I am not interested in marriage. I am interested in dating. No reason I should have to bend my preferences.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5'11" woman happily married for 40 years to a 5'8" man. Just don't come back and complain that there aren't any good men out there. You're cutting out a big death of your dating pool.

Everyone chooses what they compromise on, you compromised on height, great for you, not everyone has to do that to be happy

I didn't compromise. I value character, sense of humor, intelligence and someone that treats me as an equal. Height would be waaay down on my list.

And I should add that his confidence was a HUGE turn on. He loved my height and did not care at all that I was taller than him. Didn't care if I wore heels, although 3" is as high as I go for comfort reasons.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5 ft 7 inch guy here (actually 5 ft 7, not 5 ft 4) and I have never once in my life been turned down for a date. Not once. And I've never asked out a woman who was less than an 8 in terms of looks.

The whole 'woemn only want tall men' thing is a farce generally born out a defense mechanism for them being fat or less than an 8.

It's pretty much the opposite. Once woman is an 8, she has more choices are she will navigate towards tall men.
Ask tall men

Women who are >8 gravitate toward successful/wealthy men, not tall men. There is some overlap. But being tall and average income is not going to do you any favors landing an 8+ woman

Not true. I don’t care about money but height is high on my list. Height, kindness and intelligence. Money—not so much. I am attractive and have no interest in a man’s money.

[Anonymous]

the 5'1" ladies WILL notice that you are 5'10" and not 6'1" .... we can tell.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How many times do women lie about their weight on those apps or post a pic from 2 years ago when they were 20 pounds lighter? lol

yes because men are superficial, so now women are, too. Women can be choosier now than before. I think that's why there are so many incels. They don't like that women are choosier now.

I agree

Women have real options

Yes, they can separate the 5’ 11” men from the 6’ 0” men. What progress!

[Anonymous]

I am 5ft tall. Everyone is taller than me for the most part and while I can tell the difference between 5'5" and 6' it's all taller than me at the end of the day so I don't care. I WOULD care if he was shorter than me. I do not think I could do that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:the 5'1" ladies WILL notice that you are 5'10" and not 6'1" .... we can tell.

But those among us who are not shallow biotches won’t care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Meet people in real life, losers.

This person got a spouse so there is hope for all you singles out there.

+1

They've got a point, though. Online dating is still creepy and weird and for people who can't interact with real people in real life. It's so gross to put yourself out there as stats and hope someone picks you. I am not sure it's good that the stigma of online dating is gone. People are all Wall-E characters living life through their screens now.