Husband filed taxes separately without me - what to do?

[Anonymous]

Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has another family

[Anonymous]

Child support payments?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

At a minimum he's defaulted on the student loans and knows that any refund will go towards them which is why he mentioned not wanting OP to have to pay with the tax return

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he has another family

Or he lost his job. I personally know 2 men who pretended to go to work for months after losing their jobs

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

At a minimum he's defaulted on the student loans and knows that any refund will go towards them which is why he mentioned not wanting OP to have to pay with the tax return

Good call.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

I'm having some PTSD about an early relationship trickle truth. and the partner who "Broke down". I still never got the big picture. Good luck OP.

TRUST YOUR GUT. 10k is peanuts to get secretive about.

[Anonymous]

Tonight is the time for both of you to go to: creditkarma.com

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

At a minimum he's defaulted on the student loans and knows that any refund will go towards them which is why he mentioned not wanting OP to have to pay with the tax return

Good call.

I just re-read the OP. I don't think he filed the taxes at all (and maybe doesn't intend to)

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

I'm having some PTSD about an early relationship trickle truth. and the partner who "Broke down". I still never got the big picture. Good luck OP.

TRUST YOUR GUT. 10k is peanuts to get secretive about.

especially considering they have $20,000+ in one joint account

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

At a minimum he's defaulted on the student loans and knows that any refund will go towards them which is why he mentioned not wanting OP to have to pay with the tax return

Good call.

I just re-read the OP. I don't think he filed the taxes at all (and maybe doesn't intend to)

It may be off topic but what are the consequences for not filing for a few years? Someone come knocking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Child support payments?

Or a secret family.

Student loan debt, even if defaulted on, is too easy to rectify and shouldn’t cause separate filing

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um, his story doesn’t make sense and he’s still lying. His tax return wouldn’t have anything to do with his credit card debt.

You’re being trickletruthed an should seriously consider a divorce. You were together 6 years before marriage? Abort mission.

I also think this is trickle truth. He's giving you a nugget so that you think the problem is easily solved. The cascade is coming OP

Absolutely trickle truth. There’s zero chance that’s the full picture since it’s pretty small potatoes.

At a minimum he's defaulted on the student loans and knows that any refund will go towards them which is why he mentioned not wanting OP to have to pay with the tax return

Good call.

I just re-read the OP. I don't think he filed the taxes at all (and maybe doesn't intend to)

It may be off topic but what are the consequences for not filing for a few years? Someone come knocking?

Fines, liens on properties and bank accounts