My boyfriend is 26 and lives with his parents, doesn't work, and never pays for things

[Anonymous]

RUN, OP. Otherwise you will be carrying this man-boy for the rest of your life. He will never, ever be an adult partner to you. Ever.

[Anonymous]

Not for nothing, but part of the reason he's so attentive and so appreciative and showering you with love every single day is because he doesn't have anything else to take him away from you.

I'm not saying someone with a career can't tell you all those wonderful things daily and that you don't deserve it, but what else does he have to do.

This isn't real life. Real life isn't having someone basically available 24x7 showering you with platitudes but taking ZERO responsibility. Real life isn't QUITTING a job without another one just because you're fed up. Think about it, OP, you're almost 30. If you get pissed off at work, can you just up and quit? No because you have to support yourself somehow (and I guess him for right now).

Find someone who wants to be a better person because you're in his life. And who can help to improve both of your lives.

DO NOT have a baby with this man or you will suddenly have 2 children to spport and care for with no help. AND horrible abusive grandparents to your child on top of it.

[Anonymous]

Dump him. Now. He will be like this his whole life in every aspect.

[Anonymous]

Post must be a troll

Or maybe OP is very fat and can't do better

[Anonymous]

Of course he's sweet. He's not bringing anything else to the table.

[Anonymous]

OP - while a sweet guy, he is a loser who is not wiorthy of your time. You need to dump him and focus on making yourself better.

You sound like you have issues that have led you to having incredibly low self worth. There are good guys out there - guys who will treat you right and have a job. You just need to believe in yourself that you are worthy of them.

Please get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

How is he “good” to you?

Specifically.

He is always there for me. He cares about me, he listens to everything I have to say intently. He tells me he loves me and makes me feel beautiful. He says it every day. He is very attentive. He's very affectionate, kind, caring. He is sensitive. If he had money, he would spend it all on me. In the beginning he did work and he spent pretty much every dime on me. I didn't ask him to, but he did. He is very compassionate and would do anything to help me.

Get a dog.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dump him. Only a loser would stay with a loser like this.

How old are you, OP? No one can be this desperate... If you want to take care of someone that badly get a dog.

[Anonymous]

He's too good for you.

[Anonymous]

Some people need a boost up. It may be the environment that is holding him back. If you really love him, consider putting 100 percent into him. Move him in with you and help him get a job. See how he is after that. I'm serious. It is hard to find such a sweet guy and his family could be holding him back.

[Anonymous]

Break up with him, get yourself into therapy, and try being without a boyfriend for a while. It sounds like you've put up with a lot of crap from previous boyfriends and are now putting up with a different kind of crap from him. Sounds like someone who HAS TO BE WITH SOMEONE. Learn to be on your own and you will be in a much better place to find a good partner. They do exist.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if he sounds like a keeper.

[Anonymous]

OP hasn’t answered the important question: How’s the sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re either a troll or an idiot. Quite possibly both

So you are essentially calling her a tridiot, amarite?

[Anonymous]

OP's the REAL loser here. What, you think you have a golden vagina? You don't deserve anything more than what you can get.