Vent about my wedding last weekend...

[Anonymous]

You're Spanish?

[Anonymous]

OP, I should say here that I sympathize with you. Every woman has certain wedding non-negotiables no matter how much or how little she spends. The flowers were yours. Mine was the dress.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought the religious/conservative thread was my favorite this week, unless this came along! Whee!

You are seriously having losing your mind over a wedding bouquet... to which you'll undoubtedly respond with three capitalized, emoticon strewn, over-punctuated paragraphs on how calm and reasonable you are. Let it go. Let it go. I couldn't even tell you where my bouquet is at this point. Because who cares? But I have an amazing husband and family, some hilarious/cute/sweet stories, and a boatload of pictures if I really feel the need to relive the day.

(I know, I shouldn't, but she's so high strung it's almost hard not to poke her.)

No I have not lost my mind over it.
I'm only upset because I was planning on sharing this special moment of my life with the 2 most important women in this planet - mom and grandma - and because someone took it I will not be able to do so.
Anyway, let me write this women an email asking for my bouquet back.

Thanks for your participation.

Yes, you're the very picture of reason. You are way, way over-invested in this bouquet, especially if you believe you're in any way unable to "share this special moment in [your] life" with your mother and grandmother without it. It's a bunch of flowers.

I have 2 guesses about you...
1)you're a straight man
2)you don't have emotional bonds with your mother or grandmother
maybe a 3rd one... you had them all at your wedding.
I'll throw a 4th one... maybe you're not even married at all!!!

Anyway, I have a brand new beautiful house to organize and school paperwork to finish.

Bridezilla moment is over but please keep the encouraging words coming and also the good ideas to approach my female guests...

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I should say here that I sympathize with you. Every woman has certain wedding non-negotiables no matter how much or how little she spends. The flowers were yours. Mine was the dress.

You read my mind!!!
I cant wait to look back at it in a few months/years/decades and laugh at it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're Spanish?

Nope, Ibero-American

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought the religious/conservative thread was my favorite this week, unless this came along! Whee!

You are seriously having losing your mind over a wedding bouquet... to which you'll undoubtedly respond with three capitalized, emoticon strewn, over-punctuated paragraphs on how calm and reasonable you are. Let it go. Let it go. I couldn't even tell you where my bouquet is at this point. Because who cares? But I have an amazing husband and family, some hilarious/cute/sweet stories, and a boatload of pictures if I really feel the need to relive the day.

(I know, I shouldn't, but she's so high strung it's almost hard not to poke her.)

No I have not lost my mind over it.
I'm only upset because I was planning on sharing this special moment of my life with the 2 most important women in this planet - mom and grandma - and because someone took it I will not be able to do so.
Anyway, let me write this women an email asking for my bouquet back.

Thanks for your participation.

Yes, you're the very picture of reason. You are way, way over-invested in this bouquet, especially if you believe you're in any way unable to "share this special moment in [your] life" with your mother and grandmother without it. It's a bunch of flowers.

I have 2 guesses about you...
1)you're a straight man
2)you don't have emotional bonds with your mother or grandmother
maybe a 3rd one... you had them all at your wedding.
I'll throw a 4th one... maybe you're not even married at all!!!

Anyway, I have a brand new beautiful house to organize and school paperwork to finish.

Bridezilla moment is over but please keep the encouraging words coming and also the good ideas to approach my female guests...

Thanks

That explains it.

[Anonymous]

What the f*** is Ibero-American?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought the religious/conservative thread was my favorite this week, unless this came along! Whee!

You are seriously having losing your mind over a wedding bouquet... to which you'll undoubtedly respond with three capitalized, emoticon strewn, over-punctuated paragraphs on how calm and reasonable you are. Let it go. Let it go. I couldn't even tell you where my bouquet is at this point. Because who cares? But I have an amazing husband and family, some hilarious/cute/sweet stories, and a boatload of pictures if I really feel the need to relive the day.

(I know, I shouldn't, but she's so high strung it's almost hard not to poke her.)

No I have not lost my mind over it.
I'm only upset because I was planning on sharing this special moment of my life with the 2 most important women in this planet - mom and grandma - and because someone took it I will not be able to do so.
Anyway, let me write this women an email asking for my bouquet back.

Thanks for your participation.

Yes, you're the very picture of reason. You are way, way over-invested in this bouquet, especially if you believe you're in any way unable to "share this special moment in [your] life" with your mother and grandmother without it. It's a bunch of flowers.

I have 2 guesses about you...
1)you're a straight man
2)you don't have emotional bonds with your mother or grandmother
maybe a 3rd one... you had them all at your wedding.
I'll throw a 4th one... maybe you're not even married at all!!!

Anyway, I have a brand new beautiful house to organize and school paperwork to finish.

Bridezilla moment is over but please keep the encouraging words coming and also the good ideas to approach my female guests...

Thanks

Hee hee hee! I don't have to make any guesses about you, based on your approximately 827 posts. You're insane. But please do keep it up. I'm loving it.

No, no. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Bridezilla, get some therapy.

[Anonymous]

Sorry that the flowers disappeared since they were so important to you. A few thoughts to share:

1. It sounds like you were very insistent about wanting people to take the leftover things from the wedding. Unfortunately, your bouquet was one of those things in the end, possibly lost in the confusion of the end of the wedding. It might have been at your seat initially, but in the midst of cleaning it was moved and eventually taken. Sounds like it was a mistake.

2. If the wedding was last weekend, the bouquet is probably not in great shape now and probably wouldn't preserve well. I'd find a way to let it go.

3. Can you think of an alternate way to share your special event with your mother and grandmother? E.g. have a mini-bouquet of those flowers made during your visit to give them? And get photos of you with them AND the flowers?

[Anonymous]

I googled.

Ibero American = Central or South America

I guess it makes you feel better to say Ibero American?

[Anonymous]

Poor husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought the religious/conservative thread was my favorite this week, unless this came along! Whee!

You are seriously having losing your mind over a wedding bouquet... to which you'll undoubtedly respond with three capitalized, emoticon strewn, over-punctuated paragraphs on how calm and reasonable you are. Let it go. Let it go. I couldn't even tell you where my bouquet is at this point. Because who cares? But I have an amazing husband and family, some hilarious/cute/sweet stories, and a boatload of pictures if I really feel the need to relive the day.

(I know, I shouldn't, but she's so high strung it's almost hard not to poke her.)

No I have not lost my mind over it.
I'm only upset because I was planning on sharing this special moment of my life with the 2 most important women in this planet - mom and grandma - and because someone took it I will not be able to do so.
Anyway, let me write this women an email asking for my bouquet back.

Thanks for your participation.

Yes, you're the very picture of reason. You are way, way over-invested in this bouquet, especially if you believe you're in any way unable to "share this special moment in [your] life" with your mother and grandmother without it. It's a bunch of flowers.

I have 2 guesses about you...
1)you're a straight man
2)you don't have emotional bonds with your mother or grandmother
maybe a 3rd one... you had them all at your wedding.
I'll throw a 4th one... maybe you're not even married at all!!!

Anyway, I have a brand new beautiful house to organize and school paperwork to finish.

Bridezilla moment is over but please keep the encouraging words coming and also the good ideas to approach my female guests...

Thanks

That explains it.

what's wrong with the bold part?
my gay friends are much more sensitive with girl's issues and they were so mad when I told them someone took my bouquet. my straight friends laughed at me at dinner last night when I mentioned it and told me to get over it.
and you might be the person who wrote the post about buying a house you don't love.
maybe my house is small and needs some repair but i'm so happy with my life right now that everything looks more colorful, birds sing everywhere I go and my simple, modest home does seem brand new and beautiful to me. sorry if it hurts you.

[Anonymous]

She's so bitter for a new bride with a new house...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyway, let me write this women an email asking for my bouquet back.

Wait, so you know who has it? Then just ask for it back already. Geesh.