Anonymous wrote:All of you, nearly unanimously, say pay her. I think it's pretty funny. OP can't pay her if she never receives a bill, invoice, offhand mention of estimate, etc. It's not OP's responsibility to graciously and tactfully ask her friend how much money to give her.
While OP probably does owe the "friend" some money, it's incredibly tacky for the friend to make the cake pops and expect to get paid for them, without having mentioned it first. Once OP has settled with the friend, that's the last I'd ever speak to her. And forget a good review or recommendations.
B*** please! Cake Pop Polly may have not intended to get paid, but OP is not good friends with her and should have OFFERED, OFFERED, OFFERED!!!!!!
I have a good friend who is a caterer and she offered to make some things (including cake pops) for DH's birthday. I OFFERED,more than once, to pay her because she does this for a living. She insisted that this was her gift, so she did not want payment. OP did not even have enough sense to offer. I'm going to try that at Georgetown cupcakes next time, and see how that turns out.
Sheesh!
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