Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

He's not a very good cheater if he kept the tickets. Unless he wanted her to find them. Who brought up marriage/cohabitation, OP? Could he have played along when you brought it up to avoid the awkward situation, but then done this as a (chicken shit) was of letting you know he's not that serious?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

He's not a very good cheater if he kept the tickets. Unless he wanted her to find them. Who brought up marriage/cohabitation, OP? Could he have played along when you brought it up to avoid the awkward situation, but then done this as a (chicken shit) was of letting you know he's not that serious?

Read the original post. She said he brought up marriage.

[Anonymous]

Is it possible he has a female friend he took, but doesn't want you to know about? Maybe bc you said you are a jealous person he kept it from you? Maybe a woman he worked with but not telling you bc u are the
Jealous type?

[Anonymous]

"Oh, you went to see About Last Night? Aw man, I wanted to see that. Who went with you?"

Wait for reply. Watch his body language.

Then: "Hmm, that interesting. I could've sworn you said you were napping that night. Maybe I'm getting my dates mixed up."

Let him respond while you search for text.

"See, right here...you said you were napping. What's up with that?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

He's not a very good cheater if he kept the tickets. Unless he wanted her to find them. Who brought up marriage/cohabitation, OP? Could he have played along when you brought it up to avoid the awkward situation, but then done this as a (chicken shit) was of letting you know he's not that serious?

People are dumb. Lots of people get caught cheating because they're lazy and make little effort to cover their tracks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Oh, you went to see About Last Night? Aw man, I wanted to see that. Who went with you?"

Wait for reply. Watch his body language.

Then: "Hmm, that interesting. I could've sworn you said you were napping that night. Maybe I'm getting my dates mixed up."

Let him respond while you search for text.

"See, right here...you said you were napping. What's up with that?"

This. Oh, and OP if you haven't already, consider taking a picture of the tickets. It will help remind you (and him) that it was real.

Like the others, I suspect bad news. Sorry OP. Do you have a list of girlfriends /family/support network you can call when things blow up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

So then DTMFA! What's the point of continuing a relationship with a guy that pathological? OP, there's no winning here. Find another man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible he has a female friend he took, but doesn't want you to know about? Maybe bc you said you are a jealous person he kept it from you? Maybe a woman he worked with but not telling you bc u are the
Jealous type?

Then what's the point? If he keeps stuff from you, get someone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

So then DTMFA! What's the point of continuing a relationship with a guy that pathological? OP, there's no winning here. Find another man.

What's DTMFA?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those people telling you to be honest have obviously never dealt with a cheater, OP. Of course he's going to lie. The question is will you know he is lying. If you just say - hey I'd like to see this movie and he doesn't mention seeing it then you know he is lying. If you say I see you went to this movie and he says my Great Aunt Ida was in town but she's in the Witness Protection Program so I couldn't tell you you may very well believe him, because believing that he was cheating sucks.

So then DTMFA! What's the point of continuing a relationship with a guy that pathological? OP, there's no winning here. Find another man.

What's DTMFA?

Dump the muthafucker's ass

[Anonymous]

What's DTMFA

Dump The M**** F****** Ass.

I think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What's DTMFA

Dump The M**** F****** Ass.

I think.

DTMF Already. As in, what are ya waiting for!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

What's DTMFA

Dump The M**** F****** Ass.

I think.

DTMF Already. As in, what are ya waiting for!?

Haha! Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What's DTMFA

Dump The M**** F****** Ass.

I think.

It's 'Dump The Mother Fucker, Already' coined by the excellent advice columnist Dan Savage.

[Anonymous]

Op what did u do? Ask him and update please!